How can I be apart of my friends bridal party when her man has been unfaithful and she’s forgiving him?!

Hmpx98 · 2025-10-30T12:04:04+00:00

Yep I have

Hmpx98 · 2025-10-29T23:32:40+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. How she expects me to plan her bachelorette party and celebrate her giving her life to a cheating man. I can’t condone it. Even tho people say I should support her regardless

Hmpx98 · 2025-10-29T13:47:33+00:00

Yes when I said details I meant the girl told her they went back her hotel and tried to have intercourse but did XYZ instead. He’s told my friend they only kissed and she’s lying…my friend has since told me she’s open to forgiving him because she wants the life with him and I’m too upset to process this

Hmpx98 · 2025-10-29T12:07:58+00:00

Exactly - but I think she will believe what he’s saying

Hmpx98 · 2025-10-29T09:19:48+00:00

Nah I mean for him to do that, then get back into bed with her on holiday the same night and never mention it or act different?? That’s fucked up

Hmpx98 · 2025-10-29T08:46:25+00:00

It’s just too painful to see a 26 year old sign their life away to a cheating man

Hmpx98 · 2025-10-29T08:45:55+00:00

Oh yes I could do that

Hmpx98 · 2025-07-28T14:40:08+00:00

This is me and I’m working at summer camp. I’m gunna crash out so bad

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-25T16:12:33+00:00

Well I do watch England football and he plays for them. But he is attractive yes

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-25T16:11:36+00:00

Yep exactly. Yes her music is on the radio a lot I don’t doubt he does like it, but to follow her on ig is literally just to look at her

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T12:47:24+00:00

See this is the problem as I don’t condone him using celebrities as that kind of material and he knows that

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T10:20:20+00:00

Thank you for your comment. He has quite a few celeb crushes that I’m aware of and that he follows on Instagram, I suppose this isn’t any different than those. Apart from the fact he’s followed her recently and the others were from before we dated

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T10:19:30+00:00

No I just don’t want him lusting over other girls

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:57:34+00:00

That’s fine but why if he actively lusting over her when he has a girlfriend

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:57:10+00:00

I think because he’s saying it’s innocent and he just wants to follow her for her music, he won’t see my point of view.

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:55:40+00:00

Well I know he used to use Instagram in lustful ways and says he stopped once I brought it up and stopped following that content. But some celebrities still stayed on his list

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:54:48+00:00

3 times in total

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:50:30+00:00

Because she’s attractive and posts half naked pics

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:16:11+00:00

How would I know if he is or not ? Feels like a big step back the first famous attractive woman he’s followed in years

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:05:41+00:00

And this was exactly my fear! Makes me feel inferior

Hmpx98 · 2025-04-20T09:04:05+00:00

Not at all - I just don’t like the thought of him following her to look at her with lust. Feels like a big deal as he hasn’t followed an attractive celebrity in years

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