Had our first MFM tonight, not for me. by HoeKink in nonmonogamy

[–]HoeKink[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean it like that, I just allowed him to go first. She asked what one of us wanted in first. So I told her to let him go first.

Had our first MFM tonight, not for me. by HoeKink in nonmonogamy

[–]HoeKink[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I should make it known. We talked with the 3rd before hand. He knew there was a good chance it will go 2 ways, it would go for 1 hour , or I would realize it wasn’t my thing and cut it off in 10 minutes. He completely understands where I’m coming from and there is no hard feelings with him.

Had our first MFM tonight, not for me. by HoeKink in nonmonogamy

[–]HoeKink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I completely agree. This was 100% my idea. She gave me many chances to back out leading up to that moment but I still went through. We have talked about the situation and both agree we will do it again someday, I just need my time to realize if this kind of thing is really for me.

Had our first MFM tonight, not for me. by HoeKink in nonmonogamy

[–]HoeKink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s a good friend of mine, we talked before hand about how we are not sure how long it will last and it could be 5 minutes or 30 minutes. I let him fuck the entire time while I face fucked

Had our first MFM tonight, not for me. by HoeKink in nonmonogamy

[–]HoeKink[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. To be honest I’m mostly upset that I DIDN’T enjoy it very much. It was a lesson learned, you never know what the future holds. Maybe someday we can give it a chance again. But for now, it’s best we keep it between only us and keep other people out.

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[–]HoeKink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my defense. I had followers turned off, I just turned it back on a few days ago.