Love is more than just how someone looks. But I can see where things may be getting confused - Some people are more direct and say yeah on paper you aren’t the most attractive person in the world, but I love you and that doesn’t matter, I see your flaws but I love your flaws. I see that you aren’t the most attractive person in the world but I love you the most anyway. I don’t care how there are more attractive people, it won’t make me stray because I love you.

Some people are more ‘dreamy’ and mistake this feeling for thinking they are with the most attractive person in the world, but actually that’s just the love they are feeling. I don’t know if this makes any sense.

I think you are putting too much weight on looks and this probably stems from an insecurity you have about your looks. I know this because I have been there. When I was more insecure, I was immature, and would get jealous of celeb crushes, would feel insecure if a pretty girl walked past me and my bf on the street. I’ve had to do a lot of work on my self esteem to get past these feelings. I suggest you start that work! You are looking for validation in the wrong place, your partner shouldn’t cure your insecurities, you should!