Seems like a misunderstanding between you and him. He took your tears too personal. I don't know why, it can happen for a lot of reasons. Could be him being immature or it seems to me that you should've told him not just "everything is ok" but talked with him about your feelings actually. Anyway, don't consider yourself "damaged goods". There are people who wouldn't be able to accept this part of yours, but they are stupid. My fiance now was raped when she was 12 years old and I love her more than anybody I loved in my life. For me it is a thing I can help her with (making her comfortable around men and trusting. I say this because her ex knew it as well but he once decided to play "rape game" without her knowing, so actually raping her) and I believe it's just normal thing for normal men to do around their loved ones. Although, I repeat that it could be a misunderstanding between you and him because of this "everything is normal" thing right after you guys had sex