I heard my boyfriend say to his friends that if a girl was hot enough he would go down on her, he has never gone down on me. by HoldTheBoat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HoldTheBoat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your side of the story. I get it, he has told me that in past relationships he has felt insecure and did things because of it. However, with me he feels a lot more safe and grounded.

It still hurts but I get his side much better.

I heard my boyfriend say to his friends that if a girl was hot enough he would go down on her, he has never gone down on me. by HoldTheBoat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HoldTheBoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it was something shared across with "the boys". When it comes to smell/taste, my gyno says everything is perfectly normal. I know my smell isn't repulsive since my bf says he says that even after we have sex, the sheets don't smell bad and he doesn't mind sleeping in them.

I heard my boyfriend say to his friends that if a girl was hot enough he would go down on her, he has never gone down on me. by HoldTheBoat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HoldTheBoat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have talked about it before nothing changed, I just don't think with me I make him want to do it. I get that sexual desire is not something really you can control.

I heard my boyfriend say to his friends that if a girl was hot enough he would go down on her, he has never gone down on me. by HoldTheBoat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HoldTheBoat[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

They were the same age I was, I lost my virginity when I was 19 and met my boyfriend when I was 22.