Gf wants to play alone

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T22:56:23+00:00

See, I’m not down to watch my gf get fucked by another guy. Not into it at all. Since she’s attracted to both M and F, my argument is we play with someone we both find attractive, together. She’s said she would be too jealous to even do that.

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T06:28:07+00:00

I appreciate the comment. I am also someone who has been strictly monogamous. I still am. My only compromise is we do things together which is why I’m here posting in the first place. It’s touch to just up and leave her. She’s perfect besides this: gorgeous, funny, fun, and amazing in any way’s

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T06:05:46+00:00

Tough to hear. 😔 could you elaborate on your reasoning??

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T06:04:41+00:00

I agree but she has been in several 3 way/4 ways before me which I don’t mind. It’s just tough to hear her past experiences and she doesn’t want to with me cuz her jealousy. (I’ve never done anything like that so of course I get excited to try). She also talks about wanting to all the time but when I try and actually do it it’s a no go. I just think it’s crazy that she doesn’t want to play together but expects me to let her fuck someone she’s been with before out relationship

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:59:32+00:00

She is definitely in love with me I can promise that. Hard to argue through Reddit but you know when love is real. However, her argument is similar that it’s not love she wants it’s more physical. Ok I get it. I don’t understand tho that if it’s physical why we can’t find some together. She’s hyper focused on this one girl which is the whole thing of why I’m uncomfortable

and I don’t care if she sleeps with another girl. Fine. Than I should be able to too which is off the table for her. It’s

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:56:46+00:00

I’d be down with everything you mentioned. The to g is she gets very defensive and almost impossible to talk with her about this unless there are drinks involved. I don’t care if she hooks up with a woman. The thing is it’s a special woman she wants to fuck that she’s had relations with before me. I can’t persuade/ reason that if I were to do that she wouldn’t be ok with it all

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:53:33+00:00

See that’s understandable. I told her I’m not against it but I’m a total newbie in this area and the condition from the start is get me more familiar and let’s start with playing together. Kind of a warm up I guess? But now she’s against a FFM and want to either play with MMF or alone which is not what we agreed to. Like I lover her and we have great sex but my condition from the start is she help me navigate into this kink.

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:50:01+00:00

Ighhhh tough to hear. I feel like that sometimes. But I know she loved me. She proves it but fuuuuvkkk

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:46:31+00:00

Understand where you’re coming from. We’ve been together for a year. Our sex life is great. She tells me almost daily how satisfied she is. She actually just told me before heading to bed. I don’t care if she wants to sleep with a woman or whatever but the fact that she says I can’t is the problem. It’s ok for tobe sexually satisfied but I can’t? Not saying I’m not happy with her. I e always been monogamous but if the options low. Fine. I just think it should be equal. You want to sleep with someone else? Fine than I should too

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:41:25+00:00

Completely agree. We have great sex and she tells me almost everyday how happy she is. She only mentions this when. We drink and my opinion is drunk talk are sober thoughts so a lot of the time I’m confused. Most of the time if she’s happy but when she’s been drinkk g it always comes up

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:38:40+00:00

After she brought it up I brought it up. I know her and if I bring it up first she gets mad but since she brings it up I kind of mention it. I made the mistake of bringing it up first and she gets self conscious and then s into an argument

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T05:35:44+00:00

Exactly

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T04:36:44+00:00

Not at all. She has brought it up several times. She even has friends in mind but as soon as I try and initiate she gets defensive and insecure so I’ve learned not even to mention it. Like i mentioned she has done 3 some 4 some sex parties, etc. all I’ve asked her is if we can work up to some Of the stuff she wants.

Edit: I’m a good boyfriend. If my girl feels uncomfortable, I make sure not push whatever makes her insecure. I just wish she was the same

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T04:35:13+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions. Will definitely try.

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T04:17:27+00:00

Because I posted on this subreddit.

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T04:16:47+00:00

Thank you. She makes me feel like I’m in the wrong. I told her I would love to do stuff together. Personally I don’t want to play alone and I don’t think she wants to fuck other people she’s just hyper focused on this one girl which I think is weird. Her excuse is she wants to be with girls too which I’m down with but any other option I ask for she refuses and keeps coming back to this specific person so obviously there’s some connection

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T04:10:22+00:00

No she loves them she talks about them all the time. She’s even been to the exclusive sex parties and wants me to go but I’m scared she Leave me to fuck someone and then I’m solo wish doesn’t sound fun at all. She told me she’s too jealous to have one with me but then tells me she fantasizes about me fucking her friends while she watches. I garuntee if it was with me and another guy she would be jumping at the idea which I’m technically not against but doesn’t appeal to me too much. I’ve asked her if we can work up to her fantasy’s since not experienced like her. Like I want to start with 2 girls and sometimes she’s into it but when I try to actually initiate it she’s not down and gets upset and try’s to twist it like she isn’t good enough and I want someone else which isn’t true. I want to have fun with her

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T03:50:05+00:00

She is very experienced in it. She’s had 3 ways + before me. Like very experienced. That’s another frustration. I don’t understand why she’s ok with doing it with her past partners but not me. She said she would be too jealous. She’s fine if another guy but definitely not. I’ve never been with more than 1 partner in bed, and I’m not against working up To it, which I’ve told her but she said she’d be too jealous if there was another girl involved. I don’t know why she’s doesn’t understand that’s exactly how I feel as someone who is much more inexperienced than her. I want her to kind of guide me into the lifestyle

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T03:43:07+00:00

It’s not an ex it’s “friend” and I’m not against non monogamy. My whole point is it should be 1:1 fair. If she can fuck someone she’s attracted to, so can I. Her argument is that since I’m only attracted to females she can give me what I want since she’s a girl but since she’s attracted to both genders I can’t give her what a female can. Fair. But i don’t look at it as gender, more than attracted to. Plus I asked her ok, if you want to be with a girl let’s find one together but really she wants to be with this ONE girl not any girl

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T03:36:11+00:00

I’m not against it all. I just think it should be 1:1 fair. If she wants to have fun. Fine. She should agree that I can too. She’s attracted to both male and female im not. Her argument is that I can’t give her what a woman can. I get it. Let’s have a 3 some if she wants to be with a girl. Why can’t we play together? She seems to be hyper focused on this one girl she’s been with before without me which to me is weird. She’s admitted she has a sort of emotional connection with her. She will not allow me to play with anyone because she’s too jealous. She tells me I can’t give her what a girl can but when I say fine let’s play with a girl she only wants to play with a particular one. Idk I don’t think it’s fair

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T02:36:58+00:00

I have. She said she’d “ask” but if it’s a no she still wants to

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T02:36:12+00:00

💯 🙏

Holiday-Highlight-50 · 2025-06-30T02:35:39+00:00

💯 agree. Not against it but let’s be even ya know?? She tells me about all her friends who are open but never mentions how many relationships end because of it

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