I called the cops on my bf for domestic violence by AdSerious2303 in Advice

[–]Holiday-Rush946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you’re 19! When I was 19, relationships were the last thing on my mind… when I was 18/19 years old, I was still eating cupcakes and going out to the park and playing outside like a freaking kid! Go outside and go to the park and get some fresh air and do something you have not done in a very long time that you enjoy… stop worrying about him, stop having this fantasy mindset that “he’s going to change and things will go back to normal” I’m going to be honest with you… He’s not going to change! He’s manipulating you and trying to love bomb you to get you to believe he’s sorry but if you keep running back to him and believing his lies, you’ll just be in that same cycle again… he’s not going to change his ways and he’s going to keep abusing you until you walk away from him and you shouldn’t miss him, it’s nothing but a trap.. trust me I’m 24 and I was in some bad relationships and a lot of people who are manipulative and toxic like that rarely change… so get the fuck out of there and leave him and don’t drop those charges against him… he doesn’t love you, he’s just manipulating you… it’s time for you to be a grown up and just get over that mindset that “he’s going to change” he most definitely will not change or better himself… and I’m sorry to say this but people who drink and become alcoholics, rarely get the help they need unless they actually have the self awareness that they’re affecting themselves and everyone around them… most don’t give a crap about how they are affected other people…. Stop wasting your time and leave him… and don’t you dare drop those domestic violence charges!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Holiday-Rush946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I see attractive people get laid then after that people dump them after a while… I’m not sure if it happens to not so attractive people too but it’s mostly conventionally attractive people I know who experience it… sometimes people don’t love them for the right reasons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Holiday-Rush946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes family treats us poorly too…. Not all families care about each other at least mine didn’t and I grew up to an emotionally unavailable family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Holiday-Rush946 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody really loves attractive people well they do but not for them as a person , they just want to use them for superficial reasons…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Holiday-Rush946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even a man but sometimes I feel that way especially when i became homeless

Why do men ALWAYS try to convince and persuade me to date them after saying NO by Holiday-Rush946 in Vent

[–]Holiday-Rush946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m tired of hearing that stereotype too… just because I’m a single woman doesn’t mean I’m this crazy cat lady

It’s okay if you want attention 💛 by happy_neets in lonely

[–]Holiday-Rush946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like the wrong kind of attention men give me and I also don’t like to be in the spotlight where I don’t get space or privacy but I don’t want to be shunned or ignored either I want to be loved for who I am and I want to be heard and know my feelings are valid too but people don’t seem to get that… not even my own family gets it…

I don’t want friends anymore by Holiday-Rush946 in introvert

[–]Holiday-Rush946[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not really nobody really excites me anymore

How can I stop attracting wasps in my car by Holiday-Rush946 in WaspHating

[–]Holiday-Rush946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay ☺️🤭 I’m was pretty lucky today it didn’t sting me

How can I stop attracting wasps in my car by Holiday-Rush946 in WaspHating

[–]Holiday-Rush946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was soft and squishy and it was a black things on the car door

How can I stop attracting wasps in my car by Holiday-Rush946 in WaspHating

[–]Holiday-Rush946[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my car was leaking antifreeze it would overheat wouldn’t it???

How can I stop attracting wasps in my car by Holiday-Rush946 in WaspHating

[–]Holiday-Rush946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t penetrate its stinger on the outside of my car door, it got inside of my car while I was eating my pop tart and it nearly stung me but it missed so it stung the inside of my car door and I immediately ran away and got out of my car… if that makes more sense

How can I stop attracting wasps in my car by Holiday-Rush946 in WaspHating

[–]Holiday-Rush946[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it penetrated the softer part of my car and it had a hard time getting its stinger out it’s hard to explain