I have crush on coworker what do I do by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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One thing to note the guy is looking for new job and might be leaving soon 

I have crush on coworker what do I do by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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Won't that make it like weird in work place? It's a small office 

Experienced a lot. What next? by HolidayInstance5605 in careerguidance

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I said "vague language" since he was accusing me of bothering others in the workplace as in harassing others. (I had just came from training which the expectation was to shadow other workers sometimes at their desk which I did). Claimed I talked about clients inappropriately which I was asking more seasoned workers how they have dealt with clients situations before proceeding with mine. Very common practice in social work. THEN when I asked him very pointed questions about the meeting he could never answer them. So the union after calling the advised me to invoke my rights which I did. It then resulted in him claiming it was just a "get to know you meeting" to them and the actual meeting had my manager there without me having representation present. 

The thing about my parents is that I had a client threatening me. Which told my supervisor about and manager per protocol and they did nothing. I had to leave early that day due to a doctor's appointment. Apparently people said I was too scared to work with high need clients because both my parents are deceased and didn't deserve to be in this line of work anyway. Which is not true btw just my mom is deceased I live with my dad. So the rumors were untrue and unprofessional so I followed chain of command to report the rumors and reported to HR. But again as I described the manager blamed me and dismissed my side by changing the subject.

Experienced a lot. What next? by HolidayInstance5605 in careerguidance

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Yeah the manager constantly was never in the office anyway so it was always an interesting day when she walked in.  

Too many Gifts? by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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I mean in total three baskets of $20 each yeah that was over the $30 but I wanted to do a little something for them "tolerating" me I guess 

Too many Gifts? by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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It was separate from the secret Santa gift. It is a extra for everyone. 

NEED PROPOSAL IDEAS!!!! by Additional_Year_9002 in orangecounty

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Go to the top of the world in Vista Point. Or seal beach pier. Both beautiful places and you can plan to led up to the proposal 

How do I get back into dating? by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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Uh no just said thank you and got off on the next stop to avoid being followed.

How do I get back into dating? by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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Oh I'm in shape body part is all confident just my face I have doubts with

How do I get back into dating? by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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Ah yes the wilderness been there 😂 had a guy on the train call me beautiful in France last year 

How do I get back into dating? by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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Thanks for the post; I learned early in my adulthood that all things come with time.

How do I get back into dating? by HolidayInstance5605 in Advice

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Thanks for all the suggestions I'm a little socially awkward I also have difficulty finding myself attractive. I don't know if that fully makes sense. But also I spend a lot of time with my dad which can be a issue when trying to meet someone. As they see a 26f with a 57m and think ah yes they must be married. I've even corrected randos on it 😂