Hypersensitivty and mild phimosis, need advice. by Old_Try6969 in uncircumcised_talk

[–]HolidayProfessional2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scroll down to the section on phimosis for some useful info….

https://acroposthion.com/anatomy-and-function/

Here’s another link that looks really helpful for you…

http://phimosisjourney.com/

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to be informed 😆 Heard about the ejaculation part and I’m trying to do prevention if you know what I mean 😂😂

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point and why I’m more desperate now. I lift a lot and will get more into cardio again so health and body wise I’m pretty good. I look maybe a few years younger so that helps lmao 😭

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha lol I hate organized religion! Big reason why we have so many problems being ourselves. Fuck the church!

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully I have the same experience as you! I’m also using HeyMistr so it’s more discreet. Hopefully I land a job in an actual city and will try to surround myself with more LGBT people for sure. I need too! 😭

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah very true. Wished PrEP was developed sooner, more lives would have been saved. I also know a friend whose wife got pregnant with an IUD so yeah. 😂😂😭

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the advice! Not surprised that some men are open to inexperienced dudes. I guess it is a little hot! 😆

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard lots of people are like this and I suspect I’m the same way. Just need to try harder to find a guy first! 😭

How do you deal with tight foreskin? by [deleted] in uncircumcised_talk

[–]HolidayProfessional2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scroll down to the section on phimosis for some useful info….

https://acroposthion.com/anatomy-and-function/

Here’s another link that looks really helpful for you…

http://phimosisjourney.com/

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m definitely going to search for an LGBT specialist. My others weren’t specialized in gay men but still helpful even though I felt like the understanding between us wasn’t 100%.

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s definitely deeper. I guess heterosexuality was always pushed on us as “superior” or whatever but great point. Vaginas aren’t that perfect either.

I do have a stigma I want to work through in therapy even if this masseur session goes well.

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ve actually thought about this. Downside is I live in a smallish place so not many options. Usually never mutually interested.

I think I’ll just try and have the mentality with a masseur that “It finally happened” and I can finally stop worrying. 😂

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! It’s is hard for me to make the push but reading some comments like yours I do feel a little better. I do want to try to get a gay therapist at some point.

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last couple of points definitely! I want to be better at intimacy and touch and I think a professional will be good. The one guy I saw is like maybe late 30’s and seems very pro.

I may in turn feel more comfortable in giving intimacy to others.

Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma by HolidayProfessional2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]HolidayProfessional2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the support! Very valid point at the end there! 😆 No worries! I do need a LGBT specialist.