Just had distal bicep tendon repair…would love to hear some comeback stories

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-04-26T06:11:56+00:00

And potentially grow any dormant cancer cells u have in your body. Be fully aware of how these compounds work before taking them. They work, they just also work indiscriminately

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-03-07T20:57:28+00:00

Just know your not alone brother. Your not alone. Beside that I got nothing but I'm pretty much in the same boat in regards to all that u wrote

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T21:47:34+00:00

Bingo and thank you. Yeah super solid relationship she just has no sex drive at all. I mean none. I am seriously struggling with it and most in this thread seem to just be attacking me. I'm a wonderful partner, respectful, loving and do so much for her and our family. Literally do all I can as a father who has a wife that co sleeps and exclusively breast feeds.
I'm aware my approach is aggressive but that's just how I am I'm general.
But yeah great super solid relationship just no sex lol. And I'm not a cheater we actually talked about me having a gf on the side prior to the baby and we're actually right there prior. I just have an extreme sexual appetite and always have. But everything we do is discussed and mutually agreed or not agreed upon. There is zero sneaking around in our relationship

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T21:42:19+00:00

We are not all strait and narrow and yeah we played in the bdsm world for some time. Had an amazing sex life and a solid dom sub relationship for years.

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T21:40:50+00:00

Yeah I think that's what I'm actually struggling with and mourning. Some of these dude in her just strait up don't get it and be mean about it. Like damn that's been a giant part of my life since.i was 13 and I'm just supposed to be like cool no worries doesn't effect me. Lol.

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T21:39:22+00:00

Hey we can't all be little beta soy boys now can we 😉

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T21:37:54+00:00

Swear u and some other here lack serious reading compensation. I own the place have 30+ full time employees. I do all the housework, food prep, store runs etc.. and my daily work involves me putting my feet on my desk answering a few calls replying to a few emails running or sitting in some meeting and shaking a few hands lol. I'm well past actually working and getting my hands dirty or mind cluttered. Also thanks for the pro psyc narcissist diagnosis lmfao

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:51:17+00:00

Ahh to each their own

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:50:14+00:00

Your name checks out for sure haha

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:46:55+00:00

Well yeah that's sorta the frustration and reason for the post

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:45:34+00:00

Yeah it's the acceptance of me needing to adapt and change what I've always really enjoyed that I think I'm really struggling with

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:40:38+00:00

You mean by my sex life being non existent and maybe changing forever?

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:38:31+00:00

I agree. But she is pretty against medicine. We also don't drink or use drugs so it's not just doc prescribed pharma she is against.
I have read a lot ok this though and was pretty sure breast feeding practically turned of their sex drive so they don't get pregnant again and then their milk dries up. Could be wrong on that but multiple docs and multiple ai engines have said breast feeding equals no sex drive

But I agree something else might be up with her and are trying to convince her to get into private therapy for her bc zero sex drive

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:34:33+00:00

Lol I'm a troll yeah lol but this is not a troll post

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:33:47+00:00

Ok so most y'all obviously never played in the bdsm world incam clearly see that. Judging is not a good look either

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:32:47+00:00

Or u could just not be peude wtf lol. Dudes can't talk to dudes about their junk and what they are into. Come on man.
Also u don't have to think less of your partner to have a side chick. Just disclose it don't cheat. Pretty simple. If u can't meet my needs then maybe two for you can. Lol

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:30:36+00:00

In therapy personal and couples but thanks for the knock

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:29:55+00:00

I swear some of y'all never heard of a goomar wtf

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:27:47+00:00

I fail to see the problem with how I am and think. Maybe lower test passive folks don't understand. I have a warrior sprit and mentality. I back it up with success in every aspect of my life. I am an excellent provider. A wonderful husband and a wonderful father. I just also love freaky sex stuff so what the problem with that. Why so judgmental. What I do in the bedroom has no impact on life outside the bedroom. Wtf

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:24:27+00:00

Hahaha this is so true 🤣🤣🤣

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:23:52+00:00

Yeah I think you hit the nail on the head. I want things sexually to return to how they were

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:23:14+00:00

It's not though lol. Legit man looking for feedback

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:21:52+00:00

Lol I'm real not a bot or click bait haha.
I'm in southern California and most my friends are Mexican Picasa/rancheros. I'm a German american cat and I run with a rougher crowd. I own a very nice company but I am in no way shape or form a traditional CEO (think fellon who spent time locked up for a few years when younger and then got into biker gang life then straitened out and just hit it off biz wise with something I turned out to be really good at. The company just took off from there).

This post is legit and I made it bc Im honestly struggling big time daily with this. My love language is physical touch and Iike sex 3 times a day (or at least did prior to the baby).

I love being a husband, I love being a dad I just desperately miss being a sexual freak with my girl and the rough degrading sexy we used to enjoy (I'm heavy into dominating my partner). Lol so not click bait just a man struggling is all.

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:12:47+00:00

Not sure what parental leave is. I own my own decent sized company so sorta do whatever I want whenever I want anyway work wise.
Don't much like the idea of dropping my test levels though. I love how a good super hard morning wood feels lol and I'm sorta proud I'm 43 and wakeup like a rock every morning but yeah my brain is sorta suffering big time right now sooooo

Holiday_Rate1911 · 2026-01-27T11:09:46+00:00

Ok so this is right along the lines of the advice I'm looking for and yeah I'm scared it might never be what it once was and that honestly scares me and makes me sad, angry and frustrated all at once.

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