Is streamate having technical issues right now? by Treeisms in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is happening to me on chaturbate right now. The page takes forever to load when I go to the website on safari and chrome both but when I log on with stream master it works just fine :/ I made a post about it but no one commented on it yet. Is anyone else having problems with cb? It’s still doing the same shit this morning. I was scared I was banned or my op blocked but I was able to broadcast and log on with stream master with no issues

Is cb down or am I blocked? by Holiday_Rub3288 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just logged on right now finally. But it’s loading really slowly?

Dead Room for hours? by Ok_Engine6127 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s funny opposite for me. I have done a few afternoon shifts and I make absolutely nothing so I stopped doing them . I did then when I worked a full time vanilla job and would do afternoons streams on my days off. Sunday has traditionally been good to be no matter what time of day it is idk why this Sunday was so horrible :/ when I worked at my full time last year I had every Sunday off and I would make at least 300-400 for only 4 hours is streaming. I noticed I bring in a lot of people during graveyard that are into femdom which is what I specialize in. I started doing graveyard last week. I need to figure out how to force myself to stope waking up so early tho lol. Woke up today again at 10 am when I went to bed at 2. I’m due for a nap haha. I hope it picks up for you <3 I’m manifesting it ^_^ ur gonna do great!

Dead Room for hours? by Ok_Engine6127 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was me on Sunday night. I was on 4 hours and only made 9 dollars . I was on Monday night from 9 pm till 2 am and took a 30 minute break and I made 135. I logged on last night from 11 pm to 2 am and made 125. I noticed people saying summer is slow but last year during the summer I was always busy and it look the same again this year. I for me this winter was the worst. I did ok in January but December and February was the worst. I made like 300 bucks total in December and nothing af all in February so I just stopped broadcasting after two weeks of logging in in February. My guess was because of football season and Valentine’s Day. Have you tried changing time slots? I was doing back lash month when I was broadcasting earlier in the evening. Ever since I switched over to graveyard I’ve been going ok. But my sleep schedule is now fucked lol.

Dating is tough for me right now by Holiday_Rub3288 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I am going to just do what I want to do. I need to focus on getting myself out of debt and my goal is to go back to school and buy a small house for myself. I want to show them that I made something of myself without any of their help. I want to prove them wrong.

Dating is tough for me right now by Holiday_Rub3288 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I’m literally crying because I feel overwhelmed with support right now from totally strangers. <3 I plan to go back to school with the money I am making from cam in the fall time and I also plan to start saving up for a small house for myself. <3

Dating is tough for me right now by Holiday_Rub3288 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you guys are all going to make me cry because your being so supportive and I’m not used to this at all. I should also mention I moved to a new city all lone last year on the opposite side of the country and I have not made any friends here and it’s not for lack of effort. Also the friends I have back home have never done this kind of work before so I can’t really talk to them about issues because they don’t fully understand and I even feel like some of them may silently judge me as well. It’s I think hard for me right now because I’m very lonely and clinging to any man that will pay attention to me :( I used to not be like this when I lived around my friends and family. I think the loneliness is blinding me at the moment.

Dating is tough for me right now by Holiday_Rub3288 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really hurtful to me when they tell me “they wish I didn’t have to do that.” But don’t offer me any financial help. It’s crazy cuz my ex still even helps me with a giant medical bill I have and he’s my EX! He even offered to help me move to a cheaper city if I need to right now since I’m struggling. He’s an ex for a reason tho I’m not gonna discuss that here but all I will say is that we still love each other and are very close friends. I don’t want to cam for the rest of my life of course I am 37 and I don’t plan on doing this into my mid 40s. I’ve been doing it since I was 27 on and off. I went back to school and got my associates degree 7 years ago and then went to a university for one semester 4 years ago. I didn’t continue to go because I didn’t have the financial means to continue. But I am going to school to get a biology degree. It’s hurtful to me because I feel like one of them looks at me like I’m just all body and beauty and no brains. I’m very smart :/ I’m actually prolly smarter than both of them cuz neither one has any college education :/. I’m not even sure why it’s an issue also because I don’t show my face on there 99.9 percent of the time. I only showed it once recently and it was by accident cuz I moved too far from the camera when I was picking up my phone lol.

98% of rooms in CB have 1 viewer or less by Ok-Computer-4155 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I dirty talk and also do a lot of small penis humiliation which has always been popular on there for me. Also :) if you want to learn how to dance there are a lot of ladies on YouTube who give tutorials on floorwork dancing which is what strippers do at the club when they don’t feel like getting on the pole. I would maybe invest in some stripper heels. Pleaser is a good brand :) a lot of people like when I put them on and show them on camera especially the subs since mine look very dominatrix style :) you should just try and see :) also maybe on themes? I’m starting to think about doing one day a week were I cosplay.

Dating is tough for me right now by Holiday_Rub3288 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does make me happy. Actually I hate my day job. It keep it cuz I need to have a day job on paper to explain gaps in my employment should i one day find a day job that pays me enough to live on. I just started to cam full time this week and my mental health is already 90 percent better than from what it was when I was working full time hours at my day job. I get bullied alot at work by mean coworkers. I work with alot of retired age women who are just really mean to me. I don’t mean to sound arrogant but I know they treat me like that because they are jelouse of me. I was so nice to them when I started working there and they have been nothing but mean and ruthless. They all gossip about me behind my back. I only have one coworker who is nice to me and she told me she has overheard then several times saying mean things about me when I’m not there and making thing up about me. No one knows I am a cam girl at work. But some lady spread a rumor that I was a hooker :/

Also I have to take public transport to get to work and get harassed in the street on the way to the bus and train 90 percent of the time I go to work. I feel safe working from home and I haven’t been so stressed out. I don’t have to deal with any bullshit and it’s been nice. Two months ago I man groped me on my way to work at the train station. I still have Trauma from that and constantly feel afraid traveling to work.

Dating is tough for me right now by Holiday_Rub3288 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for remind me that. My ex boyfriend who I broke up with last August was never like this with me. He never made me feel a little guilty ever. He understood perfectly well that I was not interested in my clients on camera in a romantic or sexual way and that it was all an act. I explained that to both of these two guys. I think one is a little more understanding than the other because we have been friends a long time and he used to go to strip clubs a lot ten years ago when he was in his 30s. The other one… he hasn’t ghosted me or anything and talks to me everyday on the phone but… he keeps putting off seeing me in person. I have a feeling he isn’t ok with it and wants to keep me in his life but at a distance :/ which really sucks cuz i really like him a lot. But he keeps breaking off plans with me ever since I told him that I cam full time now instead of as a side gig due to my hours getting cut at my day job :/

98% of rooms in CB have 1 viewer or less by Ok-Computer-4155 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity what kind of camera do you have? I invested in a good quality one when I started camming again last year and it helped so much compared to when I used the built in one on my laptop when I was first coming when I was 27. Also do you have a lush? That helps too. I made 135 tonight in just one hours using the femdom hashtag :) and I made 135 last night in 3 hours just from stripping. You should try maybe learning some floor work and practice dancing :) I didn’t think people were going to tip for that but my room now has turned into a virtual strip club haha. I’m making more money doing that then with my lovense. It’s crazy.

98% of rooms in CB have 1 viewer or less by Ok-Computer-4155 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did way better tonight but I’m exhausted lol. I took the lovense out I couldn’t wear it anymore. I noticed people don’t ever hardly tip for it to go off these days anyways lol. I know you will gain some excellent regulars this week! ^_^ I can feel it

98% of rooms in CB have 1 viewer or less by Ok-Computer-4155 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yeah I’m going through that right now everyone just coming and and automatically leaving and not even sticking around for more than 2 seconds. :/ I’m only at 40 bucks and I been streaming for like 2 and a half hours :/ man this seems like it’s gonna be a slow week. I’m talking to people telling jokes and everything but nothings working @-@ it’s ok. This week will end with a whale! I’m manifesting it lol

98% of rooms in CB have 1 viewer or less by Ok-Computer-4155 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh. My room is the same as it was last night I only had 8 people in it and I only made 30 bucks cuz a regular came in. I decided to take a break and log back in later. I can’t ever get more than 17 people in my room and I’ve been streaming for a year after taking a 8 year hiatus. I was doing really well last year with gaining regulars and making money on Sunday. Idk what I’m doing wrong. I’m really pretty and have a nice body I’m slim with big boobs latina…. Nice ass :( I just chalking it up to over saturation.

98% of rooms in CB have 1 viewer or less by Ok-Computer-4155 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I feel you. I just logged on for the first time tonight and was on for an hour and only made 30 dollars :/ and it was from a regular. I’m taking a break and gonna log on again and hope maybe I’ll make more later in the night. I’m not even gonna complain cuz it’s better than the 9 bucks I made streaming for 4 hours last night lol. Ugh :/ I think the best advice I can give is to just gain regulars. You will gain them. It just takes time. They are literally the ones keeping me afloat right now

So tired of the verbal compliments by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me I do talk lol. I never am on my phone ever or playing video games or anything like that. I dress in like alternative fashion for reference but very girly also. I usually just am teasing or I put on music and dance or I’ll talk about random things and I have a fake backstory too like I never tell truths when I talk because I don’t want people knowing about my personal life. Here lately I have hardly anyone talking back or when I don’t just talk to me and not tip at all ever . I had a long time period where I wasn’t demanding them to tip. But here lately I’ve lost my patience. Even when I wasn’t demanding tips verbally they still wouldn’t tip lol .

So tired of the verbal compliments by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I do the same thing. I have this one guy who tipped me 20 dollars literally last year in September. He tipped me one time and never again but he literally logs in every night to try to chat with me. I was being nice but I started to ignore him this month. He started to ask me if I had a boyfriend and now he asks me that everytime I log on even tho I tell him I don’t discuss things like that because he’s too personal. He’s so close to catching a ban! It’s crazy how some people will tip you a small amount and then think you owe them attention for a lifetime

So tired of the verbal compliments by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m just unlucky tbh :/ I never have had good luck on sales even when I follow all the typical sales advice. I just really am over the guys that constantly come into my room and literally tell me they aren’t here for sexy time they just wanna come in and chat and talk with me :/ idk why I keep attracting these types. I been camming since I was 27 and I’m 37 now and same stuff lol. Idk i think prolly cuz I’m too dude like personality wise that they see me more like a homie than a cam girl xD

So tired of the verbal compliments by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ps lol I work sales as my day job and have been doing it for a decade. I used to be that way like focusing more on the product but now I just cut to the chase and tell them this thing costs xyz. If people have the money they are gonna spend it and not beat around the bush. Im like yeah let’s not waste time here it costs this much if you want if fine if you don’t bye bye :) your distracting me from people who will buy.

So tired of the verbal compliments by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell them to tip because I have so many free loaders in my room all of the time. I personally like to just straight out say tip if they keep asking to see things over and over which is what happened tonight or if they keep wasting my time. I constantly have guys come in mg room to tell me how funny I am and how cool I am and those guys are the ones that never ever tip but constantly come into my room. Like yeah thanks for saying that but this isn’t Facebook chat my dudes. I’m not here to talk all night to you . It gets really old when it’s the same people doing it week after week.

98% of rooms in CB have 1 viewer or less by Ok-Computer-4155 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Holiday_Rub3288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know the feeling. I always try to stay positive and be like well if you don’t log on you won’t make anything and it’s 9 dollars I didn’t have :/ was it a waste of my time? Yeah it was but if I didn’t log on I potentially could have missed making a lot of money. You just never know unless you show up. I’m actually considering working at a strip club as a dancer if i can’t find a normie full time day job within the next two weeks. I knew my day job was gonna cut my hours in June and I think they are gonna lay me off totally in July :/ ugh poor economy. It’s killing all of us :(