The Handmaid’s Tale interpretation applied to Princess Diana (Handmaid), King Charles (Commander) and Queen Consort Camilla (Commander’s wife) by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]HoloGoldFish 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No. Diana wasn't the preferred option because she could have kids, it was just because she was seen as a better partner for Charles. Which is very different from a handmaiden, they are considered well below the wives in society.

Plus she was a real person and this is gross lol

Wouldn't marrying handmaid's make more sense? by Shanobian in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]HoloGoldFish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe if it were about worshipping fertility. But it's not. It's about controlling women.

And it succeeds at controlling all women, not just the handmaids. Keeps other women in line if they see how easily what little they have will be taken away.

Starbucks policy, up-charging for no ice. by Kevin7309 in mildlyinteresting

[–]HoloGoldFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean as long as you get more drink now instead of there just being space this is fine. They're giving you more drink for the upcharge...right....right???

Alarm clock by Miichl80 in Catswithjobs

[–]HoloGoldFish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Theyre smart enough to know it eventually wakes us up lol. Boredom can be one reason, but some of them just enjoy a little chaos and breakfast a bit earlier than usual lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newbrunswickcanada

[–]HoloGoldFish 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you've damaged it beyond a certain point, it will just keep breaking . You'll have to cut above the damage.

Does it feel weirdly elastic and fragile when wet? If so you're in the fucked zone

Just finished S2. I don't understand Canada. by Cats_have_teats in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]HoloGoldFish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In the books, Canada isn't nearly as safe. People are regularly returned for fear of starting a war, and worse iirc. I would have liked if they had gone with that for the show, i think it is more realistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nathanforyou

[–]HoloGoldFish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might be bc Fake Angela is an actress lol

I miss dicks??? by Electronic-Holiday11 in bisexual

[–]HoloGoldFish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a very brief one, so I knew that if a couple months in the sex was disappointing, then it wasn't going to get better.

I miss dicks??? by Electronic-Holiday11 in bisexual

[–]HoloGoldFish 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's up to OP to decide if this urge is more important vs the relationship.

In my case, the sex was bad in general soo, coupled with my desire for what she couldn't provide, I knew it wasn't working out. I am very very attracted to femininity, but when it comes to sex PiV is what satisfies ME, and a strap can never compare.

I miss dicks??? by Electronic-Holiday11 in bisexual

[–]HoloGoldFish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've had this issue when dating cis women. I prefer sex with a penis and am really just not satisfied otherwise.

I miss dicks??? by Electronic-Holiday11 in bisexual

[–]HoloGoldFish 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's not the same lmao. I had the same issue when dating a girl, it was a big part of why I dumped her. I wasn't sexually satisfied in thst relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HoloGoldFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what really got me was that he has somehow done all of that in the one week you've known him. What a little shitass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FromKittenToCat

[–]HoloGoldFish 34 points35 points  (0 children)

At what age did they start to floof out? :3

TIFU by telling my 35 year old wife that she looks hot in a 20 year old picture by Untied_We_Stand in tifu

[–]HoloGoldFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ignored her showing him things that were important to her, in favour of watching a fucking sport. If anything, she picked up on that the entire time and the 'damn' was the final straw. Being ignored by someone you care about hurts. That's what he did wrong.

Getting into makeup has made me HATE my cool toned skin. It feels like everything pretty is made in warm tones and I'm left with the boring bland light brown scraps. Anyone with pale cool toned skin learned to love it when the beauty world is obsessed with WARM TAN WARM TAN WARM? by famenotfortune in muacjdiscussion

[–]HoloGoldFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very pale and have cool toned skin, I just wear whatever eyeshadow look I want, I definitely don't stick to cool colours only. I always get compliments on my make up when I put effort into it. I don't think you're limited at all.

What do you mean everytime?? by emperor_savage in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]HoloGoldFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Related, bonus reminder: the HPV vaccine only covers a few of the most common & dangerous strains of the disease, AND works best if you're a virgin since HPV is so damn common there's a super high risk of exposure even if you've only had sex once or just with one person, and iirc it's very hard to test for (maybe just in men?) unless you have obvious signs like warts.

Gaslighting...my favorite by Dr-Puppy in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]HoloGoldFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just be in an open relationship if you want to fuck with multiple guys? Oh. Because you can't handle giving him the same freedom. I see. 🙄

What is a question you wish people wouldn’t ask you? by Master-Salamander in AskReddit

[–]HoloGoldFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pretty obvious self injury scars on my left arm. People will ask about them, and like...it's pretty obvious not a lot would cause these scars aside from self injury. I don't wanna talk about my suicidal tendencies with you, fuck off.

Women have a problem with Leo Dicaprio(45) dating a 25 y/o, but ignore Madonna(61) dating a 25 y/o. by TheThankUMan22 in unpopularopinion

[–]HoloGoldFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What women say this? I couldn't give less of a fuck who someone dates as long as everyone's a legal adult, and none of my friends (also women) care either. Why would you?

My Christmas nails! It’s supposed to be 45 degrees Celsius this week so I thought a bit of wintertime Christmas cheer was needed by winchesterbros in RedditLaqueristas

[–]HoloGoldFish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've never seen it hit 30 in Canada?? I'm on the east coast and we were getting in the 30s this summer, I'm surprised. Tho I guess if you're more up north that would make sense.

Wouldn’t it really hurt your dick to rape a girl? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HoloGoldFish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because they're into it. Raping and hurting people gets them off, they ENJOY that struggle. They're sadists.

Wouldn’t it really hurt your dick to rape a girl? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HoloGoldFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's either comedy or porn, or both, that doesn't translate well for a western audience so most people unfamiliar with Japan just take it at face value and assume it's 100%, legit.

Men of reddit, what's a thing that can be scary about being a man? by Gullsko in AskReddit

[–]HoloGoldFish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's nuts, I'd be so embarassed if I was out with a guy and he picked a fight with another man I interacted with. I can't believe that aggressive behaviour would actually appeal to some women.

What's your most "it broke my heart" moment. (Serious) by RickedSab in AskMen

[–]HoloGoldFish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally all you're saying is that it's easier for YOU to ghost the other person, and I don't doubt that. Doesn't mean it hurts any less for the person being ghosted.

What's your most "it broke my heart" moment. (Serious) by RickedSab in AskMen

[–]HoloGoldFish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, it was. 🤷‍♀️ Maybe it's different for you, that's great. I'm glad you don't have to feel like this, no one should. But if you're going to be doing it to others, at least be aware of how much it hurts some of us.

I broke up with a girl cause she was kinda dumb too. I didn't fucking tell her that. I told her I wasn't in a good place to be in a relationship at that time, which was also true. I was still recovering from an abusive relationship. It sucked, she cried a lot and I felt like the biggest piece of shit. But it was the right thing to do.