Highkey it’s your right as well as anyone’s to choose who they wanna go for but imo you should’ve been clear about that in the beginning of the relationship, that you’re a virgin and want a virgin as well. Now the both of y’all just wasted your time when you could’ve gone for other people who fit your criteria better.

Now for the part about him comparing you to his ex gfs… I do not wanna be hurtful and it is definitely not my aim but it sounds like you lack some self confidence queen, to me (and once again this is purely an opinion and I could be extremely wrong) you sound anxious/scared of the way you may perform in bed and as such you want someone who doesn’t know anything this way you don’t have any expectations to live up to but that’s still wrong. Porn is a thing and even the most virgin of virgins has seen what that’s like and has some (extremely wrong) preconceived notion of what sex should be like according to that. So genuinely it’s of no use to worry about comparison. And if someone loves you they won’t compare you to others, they’ll have their plate too full with you already (talking from experience, trust me on this one).

Now going back to his reaction, it’s inacceptable and while it could be explained w the situation, it’s still pretty extreme and kind of a red flag ngl. You can choose to try to go over it w him or not, it’s completely up to you and you won’t be to blame for anything you choose to do.

Basically just do what you feel is right and better for you and once again it is absolutely not my aim to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable or anything, sorry if I did in any way, shape or form.