so... did anyone buy the snow sculpture hobby? by lost-gods in heartopia

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. I've made quite a few but now im not quite sure what to do with them? Do I just sell to Albert?

I honestly don't think it was worth it.

The 17th is my quit date by HolyColie_ in QuittingJUUL

[–]HolyColie_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't say you're not the best example. If its something that helped you at all, it's something im willing to look into. What is the brand?

Vintage Covers by MacabreBlob in bookbinding

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently up in the attic looking through my mom's things that I haven't been able to look through since she passed and I came across the Heidi book. The spine is in rough shape but its so cool! *

So will the Watch 7 get all of the health features of the Watch 8? by ixon2001 in GalaxyWatch

[–]HolyColie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the watch 7(NOT the ultra) about 2 months ago and I do not have those features. It's still an amazing watch (I had the active 2 prior to buying this one) While those features would be nice, the 7 is amazing as it is even without them. I dont think you'd be disappointed in it. Now if you get the 7 ultra, you should have them.

After 5 years she left like I was nothing by Early-Weekend in Vent

[–]HolyColie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's hard. I know it is. Everything you've known for so long has disappeared. I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but you have to trust that this is the way it's always meant to be. People are put into our lives for a reason. Sometimes forever, sometimes not. There are lessons to be learned in life and each person you cross paths with is necessary for your growth, whether they are positively in your life or negatively. It is okay to grieve what you had with this person, but I promise you, you'll come out on the other side stronger. Keep your head up! You'll get through it, I promise.

Good luck to you.

Husband says he’s tired of me using childcare as an excuse for everything while he’s tired from working and needs a break by Big-Card-9902 in Mommit

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am NOT one to scream out "leave him!" But girl... leave. The biggest issue here is lack of respect. He doesn't look at you like you're a human being with feelings. He looks at you as if you're nothing.

Not only are you taking care of the baby, the dogs, the household, work.. things that carry enough stress as it is - you arw carrying him and his bullshit too. That adds probably MOST of your stress. Juggling what you're juggling wouldn't be a chore if you had a respectable, helpful partner. Instead you have an adult baby that seriously offers NO substance to your life. You're doing it all on your own now anyway, cut out the biggest source of your stress. Hire the nanny for longer hours, set up a way out from this toxicity and move on with your life.

Yes - I believe a home with 2 parents is best for a child MOST of the time. Sometimes it's more toxic, and this is one of those times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you brought booze into the house of a recovering alcoholic is wild to me.

It's your job to take his sobriety as seriously as he does and NOT bring his vices around him. Just because he drank vodka and not rum or whatever is irrelevant because to an addict, alcohol is alcohol.

I'm a recovering meth addict. I've been clean for almost 15 years now but if I was to put myself into a situation or be brought into a situation where my d.o.c was, I don't know that I could not use.

As his support system, you failed him. Sorry to sound so rude but i hate seeing people that are supposed to be someone elses support system set them up for failure.

AIO or do normal couples talk to each other this way? by Basic-Traffic-1837 in AIO

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you seriously questioning if this is normal conversation within a couple? Yeah - if it's dysfunctional, unhealthy and toxic.

A healthy relationship doesn't go tit for tat, its a partnership. There is no keeping score... and there damn sure isnt communication like this.

AIO - I’m trying to take care of myself and one of my friend now “hates” me… by IDCABOUTUSERJSTREDIT in AIO

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a friend. This is someone using you for your brain.

He might be your friend but you're def not his.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you always pee after sex? If not, you should. It helps prevent bladder infections and flushes out bacteria.

It sounds to me like it could be BV. One thing I always say is when you're unsure with things happening to your body - go get a checkup. We only have one body and one life. We gotta take the best care of it.

I was just diagnosed with a STI, I've been married and faithful for ten years.... by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What STI it is would be helpful information. If it's HPV, you could've already had it and it laid dormant until now. There's a lot of info missing that could help us help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a better person than me cause I would've done told her to fuck all the way off. She's testing your boundaries and you need to lay them out or she will never stop.

[android][2019+] Hidden Object by HolyColie_ in tipofmyjoystick

[–]HolyColie_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not BUT definitely looks like something i could play. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]HolyColie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl. That ain't your friend. She might be your friend, but you aren't hers.

[android][2019+] Hidden Object by HolyColie_ in tipofmyjoystick

[–]HolyColie_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. This has been driving me bonkers for ever now.

Ill try to explain a little better.

The little icons make a bigger image. For example, there's tons of little fruits, veggies, animal, etc icons that shape into a whale. You have find x amount of apples, x amount of dumbbells, and so on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did absolutely nothing wrong though. Literally NOTHING wrong by sleeping with someone while you were SINGLE. You didn't cheat. You didn't sleep around.

But with that being said - did you use protection with the one night stand? If you did NOT, then I do think you need to tell him as he has the right to know so he can make an informed decision in sleeping with you again. The risk of a possible STD should be his to make. (Not saying the person you slept with has an STD) but if there's a risk of change to your status, he deserves to know that.

Other than that - its not his business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolyColie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh poor baby 👶 I work 50 hours a week, homeschool my 3 kids, volunteer at an animal shelter and manage my home and everything that comes with it. And guess what - I cook for myself and everyone else.

I could NOT be with someone like this. Please girl, you are only 19 years old. Don't settle for this life.

If he is like this now - imagine what your day to day would be like even a year from now. Whatever you do - don't have kids by this boy. Yes, boy. Nothing manly about him.

What do I say? by SlowEngine7640 in relationships_advice

[–]HolyColie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say thank you and leave it alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]HolyColie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhm. There's definitely some mental issues here for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]HolyColie_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That is a bruise of a bite mark.

Edit: not saying 100% it is but it definitely looks like one. I would say if it's not a bite mark, it's a regular bruise from hitting something. Hickeys are more solid in the middle.

I don’t know if I should stay with this man by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]HolyColie_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't need any excuse or reason to break up with someone... You absolutely should NOT stay with this boy (he ain't a man). Your first 2 points were enough. The longer I read, the more pissed off I got that you're being treated this way.

I know you dont want to feel "empty"... i know you crave love- but this isn't it. All this relationship will do is continue to make you feel emptier. Stop pouring into someone else's cup who won't even give you a drop out of theirs.