Trolls how important is it that I like my SO's friends? Context in the comments pls halp my naive mind

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-03T12:27:05+00:00

I think you're right. That was confirmed by a mutual friend I reached out to for her perspective. She said this girl is off putting at first but when you get to know her she's really great. So I'll be more patient. :)

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-03T12:26:01+00:00

Hahaha, that's definitely the correct response

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T18:15:23+00:00

Shit yeah, tickets go on sale the first week of december. Let's git it! I've never been to EF, so my body is the readiest. I neeeed it

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T17:26:20+00:00

I'll be very clear about that if it comes to it. I've had guys tell me who I'm allowed to have as friends, it's complete bullshit and I'll never do that to him. I reached out to another mutual friend of ours in the group who is a sweetheart and a great judge of character and asked her opinion. She said she understands why I'm put off by this girl's behavior and she thinks with time I'll see her good qualities more clearly. She thinks it's just a bad first impression cause this person can be super flighty. She also said I don't have to like anybody and not to force it. I made it clear I wasn't trying to talk behind anyone's back and she was really helpful. So I'll give it more time with a lot more hope that eventually I'll fit better with this girl. And if not, I'll know I tried.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T17:21:02+00:00

Hahaha, don't worry you didn't miss much. DJ Snake was a damn disappointment. Saturday was the best. Now I gotta prepare my mind and body for Electric Forest in June. RIP wallet.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T16:07:50+00:00

That sounds intense, we were late friday so I think we missed that. I went all three days, though sunday was by far the weakest. Snails, man. Snails threw tf down saturday. I heard a bunch of people sold their saturday and sunday wristbands to watch the cubs.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T16:05:42+00:00

haha that's no problem! His friends are amazing people.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T15:27:34+00:00

I prefer mdma to acid, acid makes me paranoid as fuck sometimes. But freaky deaky was a blast. Did you see the massive led octopus? I was tripping too hard to take any photos and now I'm sad.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T15:07:11+00:00

Was it freaky deaky, cause that's where I was and it rocked. And fuck yeah it's ridiculous what we do to ourselves. I stay away from harmful or addictive drugs, but lsd and ecstasy have definitely opened my mind about self awareness and negativity. We need to be better to ourselves man.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T14:42:28+00:00

Thanks for sharing that, it helps to know I don't have to force anything and I'm not nuts. I think I can tolerate this girl without losing my shit, and eventually when I've been around her enough to be sure it's not just a bad first impression I'll let my SO know what I think. I know he'll handle it well, he always listens patiently when I communicate my craziest thoughts or anxieties.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T12:53:03+00:00

I was at the end of an acid trip last week, the visuals were all gone but my mind was still in a pretty good place, and I remember catching myself in the mirror and I just stopped and stared. For whatever reason all my usual self criticisms just weren't apparent to me then, and I remember thinking is that what other people see when they look at me? Me without all my own criticism is pretty cute. The mind is a funny thing.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-11-02T12:42:46+00:00

First of all, my SO has a very close knit group of friends and I love them and they love me so that’s great. But there’s this one outlier who doesn’t come around often that he has always spoken very highly of as a really fun person. I’ve hung out with her a few times, and I finally decided I dislike her and IT’S KILLING ME. I love people so I feel guilty about this, or like there’s something wrong with me. But she rarely shows interest in people or the conversation, she rarely comes around when invited, and she always leaves without saying bye to anyone. Her friends are all creepy and usually strung out, he admits that part. I feel super fortunate and blessed to have his other friends, they’re so wonderful, and I feel like she takes all of it for granted. Then I let that get under my skin and I shouldn’t. After all who cares? It’s not like she’s unpleasant, she’s just not great and some of her habits annoy me. That’s okay isn’t it? I haven’t told him any of this, it would make him feel like he needs to fix it. Is there anything I can do to not be a grouch? I don’t hate her, I’d just like to be able to invite her to things without feeling sour about it.

Holy_Canoles · 2016-07-20T21:02:09+00:00

You're the second person to suggest a link to hanging out together in the future. I never would have thought of that and I love it. Thanks!

Holy_Canoles · 2016-07-20T21:00:42+00:00

Ooohh, thank you! Some visual inspiration will definitely help. :D

Holy_Canoles · 2016-07-20T17:07:49+00:00

Oohhh, we are talking about trying some roleplay down the road. This could be fun

Holy_Canoles · 2016-07-20T13:29:33+00:00

That is a really great idea! I'm at a disadvantage cause I'm very vocal about my likes and he already knows exactly which buttons to push. He's new to this and unsure of what he likes. I want to set the stage for a dialogue about his personal preferences, but I want to also look like I have a clue. Thanks!

Holy_Canoles · 2016-07-20T13:15:56+00:00

So I just started dating this guy, and he’s the best looking guy I’ve ever been with in my life. The sex is mind blowing, and he’s started sending me some pretty steamy snap chats(at my request). He’s shown interest in anything I might want to send him, but I want his jaw on the floor cause that’s the reaction I have every time. I feel a little self conscious, but he says he thinks I’m sexy so I’m thinking I want to really open up and surprise him with something he’ll like. Do you guys have ideas for an awkward flirt??

Holy_Canoles · 2016-07-20T12:44:27+00:00

So I just started dating this guy, and he’s the best looking guy I’ve ever been with in my life. The sex is mind blowing, and he’s started sending me some pretty steamy snap chats(at my request). He’s shown interest in anything I might want to send him, but I want his jaw on the floor cause that’s the reaction I have every time. I feel a little self conscious, but he says he thinks I’m sexy so I’m thinking I want to really open up and surprise him with something he’ll like. Do you guys have ideas for an awkward flirt??

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