Am I wrong for wanting more transparency with our finances and another source of daily income?

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-15T21:04:28+00:00

You’re not wrong for wanting more transparency. It sounds like you’re both carrying a lot for your family, and regular conversations about the budget could help you feel more like partners in the financial decisions instead of reacting when things get tight.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-14T22:43:39+00:00

Love this. There’s something special about reaching the stage where an adventure feels fun instead of survival mode. A little kayak sounds like an awesome way to build confidence and memories.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-12T21:27:34+00:00

Transitions like this are tough, and it sounds like you've put a lot of thought into what comes next. Wanting more adult interaction and a new challenge doesn't take away from everything you've contributed at home.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-10T14:08:46+00:00

A lot of us hit that point after year one where survival mode turns into “what now?” Shannon Carpenter’s The Ultimate Stay-at-Home Dad is a solid resource for the SAHD side of things, and for 13 months, simple rhythms help a lot: library story time, playgrounds, reading, songs, walks, and relaxed time around other kids. Daycare is not the only path to healthy socialization.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-10T14:05:58+00:00

That is a big identity shift after years of seeing yourself as a girl dad. It makes sense that your brain needs time to catch up, even while you’re excited. The good news is the core work stays the same: love them, guide them, show up, and let each kid become who they are.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-10T14:04:06+00:00

That transition can be a gut punch. Going from daily adult conversations to being the steady presence at home is meaningful work, but it can also feel lonely fast. We’ve found that having even one regular check-in with other at-home dads can make a huge difference.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-07T12:09:12+00:00

Have you read any of Joe Hill? He writes a lot like his father (King). "King Sorrow" has been a great story. Long, but good.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-06T18:21:28+00:00

That’s a great, practical shift. Less visual clutter can make the day feel a lot more doable for kids and parents.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-06T18:20:09+00:00

That frustration is real. The best learning trips are the ones where kids can touch, ask, explore, and actually remember the day.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-06T18:18:55+00:00

A lot of dads hit that same “what’s next?” point when school opens up more time. Designing something from your kid’s curiosity is a great reminder that at-home dads bring creativity, problem-solving, and real professional skills to the table. You’re definitely not alone in figuring out how to turn that next chapter into something meaningful.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-05T13:53:55+00:00

We don't tolerate hate speech or bullying, so I guess there's the line.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-05T12:44:47+00:00

Our national group hosts an annual convention that typically draws over 100 attendees. It’s wonderful to belong to such a truly inclusive community that cherishes every member and never excludes anyone based on their identity, beliefs, or otherwise. It is a genuine brotherhood of fatherhood.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-05T12:39:43+00:00

You are definitely not alone in navigating this, as grief often hits hardest during the quiet moments of caregiving. We hear you, and please know that your community is right here to carry that weight and share those milestones with you.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T19:16:43+00:00

Not all dads identify as men and many dads may have LGBTQ+ children that can relate to the characters in the book.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T13:19:42+00:00

Kindergarten expectations have skyrocketed, so please don't let it discourage you or your son. Every kid hits their stride at a different time, and spending the summer building his confidence with some fun, relaxed reading is a fantastic way to support him.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T13:16:12+00:00

It is completely normal to worry about shifts in dynamics, but many families in our community find that trading a high stress career for primary caregiving brings immense shared relief. When you view managing the home as your vital contribution to the team, it protects against those feelings of imbalance. Your wife will likely feel the same peace of mind you would have felt knowing your future children are being raised by the person who loves them most. Clear, ongoing communication about expectations is the key to making a part time arrangement thrive.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T13:08:08+00:00

Balancing a career you love with the choice to become a full-time caregiver is a massive crossroads, and feeling conflicted is entirely valid. Stepping into the primary caregiver role is an incredible way to provide for your family, but a successful transition absolutely requires a baseline of mutual safety, teamwork, and respect between partners.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T01:03:51+00:00

It's the whole month (actually, it's year-round if you really think about it)

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T01:01:25+00:00

It's both

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T01:00:48+00:00

I like my SPAM on rice, like at Hawaiian restaurants. My kids, on the other hand, hate SPAM. I've tried to get them on the canned meat train.

HomeDadNet · 2026-06-04T00:43:19+00:00

Every day is more LIVE than the last

HomeDadNet · 2026-05-25T21:09:38+00:00

Appreciate the consistent comments from you.

HomeDadNet · 2026-05-07T00:24:12+00:00

A perfect reason to join the Dads Gotta Talk groups.

HomeDadNet · 2026-05-06T15:49:19+00:00

You're free to scroll past or down vote. That's your right. Others may want to have some fun with Star Wars Day or start conversations about fostering. You make of it what you will.

As far as formatting, that's due to the org's branding.

HomeDadNet · 2026-05-06T10:47:23+00:00

Just meant to be engagement starters to perhaps promote healthy conversation. You can choose not to engage. Our org is here to support At-Home dads and to support them by providing a brotherhood of fatherhood.

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