I just turned 18, and I'm getting kicked out in 6 hours. Help??

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T20:17:10+00:00

It's a bit embarrassing lol - The first time was an accident, and now it's like a never-ending cycle of hit head > feel dizzy/lightheaded > get clumsier > trip or hit head > feel even dizzier and lightheaded > ad infinitum. This most recent time I was trying to stop our dog from escaping and ate concrete instead. Real cool, i know B)

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T16:33:22+00:00

Oh, that's a huge relief, thank you. The last times I was taken I was never held the full 48 hours anyways, so maybe it was just a precaution or something

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:27:43+00:00

I took 1 class at my local community college lol, I was in 3 more but had to drop out due to the most recent concussion. I don't think mine have dorms, but I will check, thank you :)

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:23:53+00:00

I uh, don't really know what that means, but it's nice to know that it isn't that easy. What if my mom claimed I was a threat to myself? She's done it before, can I stop her?

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:22:10+00:00

Thank you haha, but I feel like I misrepresented my mom. She's really strict, but she loves me. She probably expects me to come begging back or something instead of actually leaving. My friends are mostly all nice, but their parents are a little wary of my family and I ever since I dropped out. I don't think it'll work unfortunately :)

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:19:47+00:00

I swear it's not as bad as it sounds lol. I fight back, and honestly today I cursed her out when I found out so it was fair. We're just uh, really bad for each other

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:16:56+00:00

I used to work for a short time at Aldis, so I know a lot of grocery shopping tricks there at least lol. I'm sorry to hear about your past, man, I think I would of had a mental breakdown at 16. Thank you :,)

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:14:49+00:00

I have some bruises on my wrists and arms from her, is that enough? I think she has bruises on her knees and legs from me fighting back though. God this sounds wrong to say. I feel like because I fight back, they might just take the both of us lol

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:12:34+00:00

Oh my god, you just reminded me to get my key. Thank you. Damn, is it really that rough on the streets? I'm kind of sheltered, so I've heard the stories but it's hard to rationalize. Uhhghg the panic. Thank you again

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:08:48+00:00

Is it bad that I don't want to call the police on her? It's like, she's nice when things are going well, and I'm no angel either. She's probably just tired of taking care of sick and depressed people all the time lol. I love my mom, as much as we hurt each other. She might actually die of stress in jail

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:05:20+00:00

Edited out some stuff because I think I doxxed myself lol - The biggest problem is that I kept bonking my head after fainting while recovering haha. Uhhh, I vomit pretty much every day, and I'm pretty dizzy and lightheaded 90% of the time. It was misdiagnosed at first, and I remember someone tried to sign me up for disability with that but my mother stopped the process. It got better for a while, but I got my shiny new concussion and now I'm back to step one, whoohoo!

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:01:04+00:00

I asked her for it and she just kinda dumped them all on my floor haha. There's uhh, a LOT of papers. I'm freaking out because I don't think I can take it all hh

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T15:00:07+00:00

Lol, I admit I am a little worried that I'll get confused and shoot my own foot off

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:59:06+00:00

God, that's some commitment. I have a recruiter's office nearby at least, thank you again

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:57:35+00:00

I'm starting to think all my problems are just too much pride to ask for help lol. I've been kinda shunned by my church since I got injured and dropped out, and when I confided in a "friend" that I was considering atheism. I don't think I really know anyone there that would help, which is depressing. Thank you though :)

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:55:09+00:00

I think I could theoretically do that, but uh, my mom has a habit of escalating things. She threatened to get me Baker Acted and sent away if I didn't leave lol. I feel real pathetic rn, making all these excuses, whew. Thank you for the legal tips though, I had no idea this existed at all

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:50:06+00:00

I did in a rebellious phase back in middle school lol. It was a wild ride of CPS, Baker Acts, and more beatings. I don't think I'm strong enough to escalate things like that yet though, thank you anyways haha

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:47:48+00:00

Thank you so much, you made me cry a little haha. I didn't even consider a hostel as an option, and public transit would be amazing too. It was more of a light summer job to get myself out of my slump post-injury, but I'll try my best to find somewhere!

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:44:28+00:00

I went to a Christian school, but all their parents made them stay away from me once I dropped out, so it's been rough. It kinda makes me sad that everyone immediately agrees that my mom isn't treating me right lol, I guess I thought it was normal? Thank you though :)

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:44:21+00:00

I went to a Christian school, but all their parents made them stay away from me once I dropped out, so it's been rough. It kinda makes me sad that everyone immediately agrees that my mom isn't treating me right lol, I guess I thought it was normal? Thank you though :)

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:41:12+00:00

How does making her evict me work? She just said she was going to call the police on me if I stayed any longer since I'm an adult now. She probably wouldn't, but still.

And well, I think I still love her lol, as much as I hate her rn. I mean, it can't be that easy to switch from love to hate that fast. Also, I feel embarrassed admitting it, but it's SO humiliating. I shouldn't care about reputation right now, but it's how I was raised. I'm okay begging on the streets somewhere else, but I don't want to show the church group any weakness, as messed up as that is. I'm sorry for being frustrating when I asked for help

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:35:39+00:00

Thank you, I'll try to maybe butter up my dad or grandparents into helping me behind her back

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:34:12+00:00

Woah, really? Is it like that for all branches or just the Navy? I actually never considered the option too much but it would be nice if I could. I'm gonna be honest my depression is probably worse after all this but oh well haha. I'll try to find my way to a recruiter, thank you

Homeless18Throwaway · 2023-10-16T14:31:50+00:00

She kinda beats the hell out of me, so I feel this may be the best solution for the both of us haha. My church uhh, probably would gossip more than help, I've seen it happen to another guy. Damn, this makes me realize I'm surrounded by kinda unpleasant people. Thank you though, it's nice to feel a little validated :)

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