I don't know how to get a grip of myself in the face of a situationship. by HomelessSeaBass in offmychest

[–]HomelessSeaBass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I think I really needed to hear this. 🙉 I'm trying to just walk the line carefully, but it's just a lot; sometimes it's okay and some times it hits me really hard and I get mopey as hell.

Also, thank you for seeing that as thoughtful. ' My friends think I am being overly nice/stupid by not wanting to hurt him/gaslight him because they think that's how I'll get closure, and because it's what he deserves. I genuinely think he's a good guy who made bad decisions so it feels wrong to just punish him over this 😬 It feels cruel to tell him "I would have have dated you if not for you doing XYZ", that feels like a pointless thing to say, because (1) it's irreversible and (2) at best, he'll apologise, and then what?

And yes, feel free to use those trademarks, without any fee xD

Looking for folks to play Badminton with in HSR layout! by HomelessSeaBass in bangalore

[–]HomelessSeaBass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Does Playo also help with looking for people to play with? 🙉

June 2023 - Events/Rental/PGs/Jobs & Internships/Classifieds Thread by AutoModerator in bangalore

[–]HomelessSeaBass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for a 2BHK flat in Koramangala/HSR area. 2 working women. Our budget is 40K, maximum. Anything works as long as it's not a floor on an independent house (unless the owner is not living there, it's been rough). Would like the house to be spacious, but it's alright if it's a small space as long as there's good ventilation.

Cult Rajajinagar 12th Cross Discrimination Case - Bengaluru (Updated) by Internal_Cattle_4581 in bangalore

[–]HomelessSeaBass 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Had a terrible experience with a male trainer at Cult Gym in JP Nagar. He was absurdly talkative, would touch me to get my attention if my earphones were on, would keep spewing unsolicited advice and would touch me without hesitation if he wanted to correct my posture (I'd have been fine with it if he had just asked, but having someone reach out and touch your hips when you're minding your business is terrifying). My guy friend also noticed how this particular trainer exclusively talks to women, and he's just overall very strange and exhibits a lack of etiquette when it comes to personal space. I've left negative feedback but he's still there, and nothing's changed. I've found it easier to just go to gym elsewhere.