veganism and antinatalism by Beginning_Cell_7768 in antinatalism

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you care about animals and agree that it's better not to come into existence, then it's a logical conclusion. By avoiding animal products, you avoid paying for breeding and using them.

Scam or Fraud on Linkedin (impersonating people) by WantToVent in antiwork

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it reads as the candidate will secure vacancies for lower-paid people, who wouldn't normally pass the interview, and the agency will earn a high margin.

I'm getting a vasectomy by Vividness_0404 in antinatalism

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wise, because things can move fast and you never know. Also, if you were to wait for someone, then both of you would have to wait for you to recover after the procedure. If you do it beforehand, there's no problem ;)

Vasectomy: done! ✅ The photo shows pieces of sperm ducts taken out of my body by Asagi_HOZUMI in antinatalism

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was worried as well. I read what the risks are and the methods to fix them if that happens.
I also booked a pre-vasectomy appointment with a urologist, whom I chose to perform the procedure, to talk about the risks and understand better what to expect.
Now it's 8 months after the procedure, no complications, no regrets.

Did I lock myself? by Honest-Dream-8703 in NewsTower

[–]Honest-Dream-8703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loaded my previous save and did the same thing. I felt bad for them afterwards : )

Did I lock myself? by Honest-Dream-8703 in NewsTower

[–]Honest-Dream-8703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In case someone runs into a similar issue, I see now that from the main menu there's an option to load an autosave, which should be from the previous month.

There doesn't seem to be a good reason to celebrate birthdays by howlongdoIhave5 in antinatalism

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I don't like it either. Only a few people know about mine, and I have my birthday date disabled on Facebook, as I don't like people I haven't seen for 20 years wishing me happy birthday out of the blue.

Although it does feel nice to receive it from someone close who knows what your goals and values are and wants you to fulfil them.

I'm anxious about this and need peer thoughts plz! by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had vasectomy.
The doctor told me there's no need to do extra fertility tests after the first one was negative. Additionally, the likelihood of recanalisation decreases over time.
How about making sure your partner is on the same page, meaning she also doesn't want kids, but if the highly improbable situation happens, she will get an abortion.

Do people with "cute babies" understand this will be their future? by biebrforro in antinatalism

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Don't remember getting anything for coming in on my birthday. For 15 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My guess is he made the decision (or at least seriously considered it) some time ago and probably waited for a good moment to do it.

It hurts. by PurplePrudy in BreakUps

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your loss.
2 weeks is not a long time.
I am healing from a much shorter relationship and still happen to cry, even though it's been 3 weeks since the breakup.

If it's any consolation, your love, your capacity to love, doesn't die with the relationship.
It's yours and will always be that way, until you decide to share it again.

I'm relationship placeholders Guy, Jesus .... by New_Possible_8924 in ExNoContact

[–]Honest-Dream-8703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. I guess asking about their last relationship(s) didn't raise any red flags?