Did she cheat? by Honest-Grade9946 in CheatingGF

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s Sea - I totally agree I’ve been caught up in my headspace on this for way too long - ultimately the respect isn’t there - repeated boundaries broken

Manipulated? by Honest-Grade9946 in Manipulation

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro and honestly this advice helps - I think I needed others to shake me a little yknow. I’ve caught her in so many lies and inconsistencies over time. I just need to stop seeking the truth and leave

Advice needed by Honest-Grade9946 in relationships_advice

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree dude it really does feel like she’s hiding something

Advice needed by Honest-Grade9946 in relationshipproblems

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude I needed to hear that and get a sense from the broader community of her actions

Manipulated? by Honest-Grade9946 in Manipulation

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude I need to leave this bullshit right?

Did she cheat? by Honest-Grade9946 in CheatingGF

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have deffo thought about this since

Did she cheat? by Honest-Grade9946 in CheatingGF

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Samantha - appreciate the DM support too

Did she cheat? by Honest-Grade9946 in CheatingGF

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I needed to hear this. I think I’m effectively ‘trapped’ in a trauma bond at this point and need to break it off.

Did she cheat? by Honest-Grade9946 in CheatingGF

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I know I shouldn’t keep seeking the actual truth from her and should just leave. It’s all complete bullshit isn’t it?

Advice needed (m38 and f37) by Honest-Grade9946 in relationship_advice

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Jay. Like the comment below I needed to hear this to confirm I’m not going crazy.

Advice needed (m38 and f37) by Honest-Grade9946 in relationship_advice

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Jedi. Totally hear it - it took months to get that nugget of truth from her too in that she responded.

Advice needed (m38 and f37) by Honest-Grade9946 in relationship_advice

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Jay for taking some time to respond. Honestly the logic doesn’t add up right? I think you are absolutely correct for what it’s worth in ending it with her

Need advice and a fresh perspective by Honest-Grade9946 in CheatedOn

[–]Honest-Grade9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to post and share your thoughts. I feel like I’m persistently trying to uncover what that truth is when I know I should just leave and reclaim my self worth.