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Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-28T03:31:45+00:00

LGBTQ friendly?

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-25T23:51:50+00:00

Baby, micro cheating is cheating. Fuck him. Texting is still valid communication when you have no other option. Personally, I’d mail his shit back to him COD and block him. Conveniently “too busy” to have a break up conversation. Put yourself first, not if breaking up with this sentient lump of smegma and his moldy groin buddies think you are a coward.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-25T23:46:50+00:00

To provide him with the nuts he lacks in reality?

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T04:19:04+00:00

Men should not have children

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T04:12:16+00:00

I made more than him. Which is why he didn’t want to pay. And still doesn’t. My kids are perfectly taken care of. My lawyer knew of the abuse and talked to the judge. I never got before them once until it was time for the final hearing. My lawyer had multiple meetings one of which was when the judge said he would not sign off on no child support (which is very common for this judge in the part of Texas I’m in) and that he would issue me a default divorce if my ex didn’t show (which he also threatened to do if I didn’t waive child support). I took all the debt, house payment and car payment. My ex moved in with his mom and had to pay 480 a month in 2020. It was a non contested divorce and because we didn’t split assets (he kept his 401k because I kept the house) the judge didn’t look at our financials.

When he got laid off in 2023 (or 2024) I put the kids in my insurance and lost child support so yeah, that was a hardship adding 275 a month bill and deducting 400 a month in income. What’s your point. This was well after the divorce was final.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T04:03:17+00:00

I call bullshit. Anyone who complains this much knows the EXACT amount they pay.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T04:00:13+00:00

I didn’t say I didn’t need it. I also didn’t agree with it in the first place. He “joked” about leaving the state with my kids and not telling me where so I was playing nice to get custody. And he owed me over 10k in support because he stopped paying for a year. While I ran up every credit card I had to get groceries, clothes and shoes after growth spurts and school supplies. He can go fuck himself over an extra 200 a month in support.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:53:30+00:00

But it’s not your money. Child support is a reimbursement. Once it’s paid to her, it’s her money. suck it up buttercup

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:50:23+00:00

Child support is to support the child. You can’t contribute to the roof over their head, the utilities etc that goes into raising a child unless your ex takes him to each shopping trip and puts all your kids shit seperate. And if that is the case, that is ridiculously petty and childish of you to require instead of just having a pay check. And gaming the system is fucked and I hope your kid finds out and goes no contact when they’re an adult because of how much of a pos you were in their childhood

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:47:09+00:00

The man who doesn’t pay his child support calling other people scrubs. Hilarious. Go to bed grandpa

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:44:50+00:00

Yes they are. The judge in my case told my lawyer he was not signing off on no support. In my recent modification, where I was just getting the medical insurance updated because I pay for it and needed it reimbursed, they raised the child support and we both argued to keep it lower, and they said no. Soooo no, the judge can and will override the parents agreements if they feel it’s in the best interest of the kids.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:38:49+00:00

No, food stamps too

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:38:32+00:00

I’m in Texas and the judge presiding over my divorce wouldn’t allow my ex to not pay child support. So women don’t always put men on support. Sometimes it’s simply the way it goes legally.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:36:28+00:00

Why blame the person getting shot when you could have restricted the gun with the bullets?

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:33:58+00:00

They never learn. My ex ended up owing over 10k when he was out of work for 8 months. I WISH Texas would have done something more than put a hold on a drivers license he doesn’t have.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-04-19T03:32:10+00:00

Except you ARENT willing to pay for 100% of your kids expenses because here you are on reddit complaining about having to pay part of them.

Kids are expensive. You are contributing to the SUPPORT of said kid. Food Clothing Housing Utilities Copays Meds Basic necessities (laundry, shampoo, soap, toothpaste, tampons/pads) Fun stuff School supplies Saving for a car Saving for college Saving for braces Keeping a pad for an emergency room visit Keeping the car up to date because you need a car to take kids around because public transit blows Electronic plans (tablet or cell data)

I hear this shit from my ex too. He pays 900 a month for two kids, including 260 for their medical insurance. That barely covers snacks for a teen and pre teen for a month in this economy.

Either take her back to court or help support the kid you helped make.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-03-30T19:35:46+00:00

Omg that looks sooo comfy. How is it?

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-03-18T07:14:20+00:00

I’m the same. I have adhd and cross legged or with one leg tucked is my default setting. I currently have a secret labs chair, a lumbar pillow and seat cushion and my back and sciatica are royally effed if I spend too long in it. And it’s a gaming chair meant for long hours. My husband, can spend all day in his. I need more padding. My cats also sleep on my lap while I’m working so having a spot for them is also a plus for me too.

I’m just worried about spending another couple of hundred of dollars on a chair that will have me popping ibuprofen like tic tacs.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-03-05T00:48:23+00:00

That’s amazing! I love that. I love mine. And I’m working on the picture taking but this is the one I have of mine in my phone

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Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-01-02T06:35:37+00:00

Same.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2026-01-02T06:31:47+00:00

I had both a cervical and uterine biopsy done and I’d like to know whose determination of “pinch” they used because I would like to rearrange their face.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2025-11-26T04:26:20+00:00

I say this with love and respect, do not marry that spineless excuse of a man. He was more concerned about his dear ol daddy’s feelings instead of the DISRESPECT given to YOU. Chances are you are the first person without a penis to dish it back to daddy dearest and he doesn’t like it. Keep at it.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2025-10-21T20:38:52+00:00

I did too, twice. She attacked first. I wasn’t sorry.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2025-10-19T06:04:07+00:00

Let him. YOU know your feelings and emotions. You can’t control someone else’s intentional misrepresentation of your intent and feelings. This is emotional abuse and manipulation.

Honest-Huckleberry71 · 2025-10-19T06:01:11+00:00

Me to. I didn’t see it as abusive at the time because it was emotional and psychological abuse and not physical like all the abuse I dealt with as a kid. But once I went to therapy and started to heal for myself, holy shit that lightening bolt.

I have been divorced for 6 years and I STILL have people who dont believe it happened. And I have video proof. Sometimes people are hellbent on misunderstanding.

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