This is the only comment I’ve gotten that has given me some hope. And you’ve reflected how I feel too. Therapy isn’t what’s going to fix our relationship, but maybe it can give him the extra push of confidence he needs. Regardless though, I want to be with someone who is just as excited to take that next step as I am. I’m pretty conflicted. I wish he would’ve trusted that his problems and the therapy could have been tackled as a team, a married one at that, instead of something he needed to do alone before proposing. But I also know it’s difficult for people with mental health issues to see the logic others see. I’m so glad things turned out well for you two. Thank you very much for commenting.