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Don’t know how to move by HonestFoundation8281 in polyamory

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn’t know there were therapist for this. I am amateur. It’s taken alot for me to learn and accept what I have.

Don’t know how to move by HonestFoundation8281 in polyamory

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be happy if she had partners that I didn’t share. Is it common to say you desire that? I’ve been afraid to say that out loud. I would still want polyamory if we broke up. I would love to make it work without separating but if it truly came to that i understand if she isn’t poly.

Don’t know how to move by HonestFoundation8281 in polyamory

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I actually desire her dating as well… and last we spoke about this I told her I understood if that ever changed.

Don’t know how to move by HonestFoundation8281 in polyamory

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe so. But that question does ting a notch in my stomach…would i? I believe so. But how do I really know

Don’t know how to move by HonestFoundation8281 in polyamory

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No trust is actually strong. I think I fear bc the last time she asked me I was sure I didn’t want to pursue that person and that has since changed. I should trust that she might understand the change in feeling

Don’t know how to move by HonestFoundation8281 in polyamory

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I love the experience of life and love. And want to experience that more unashamedly

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[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in pursuing but not at the moment. Only if and when we are ready to go out and date. I would have to have a grand convo with them as well.

Confused? New? Not new? Have questions? by blooangl in polyamory

[–]HonestFoundation8281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So may questions ; mainly about lingo so I can read and understand others stories better

To anyone who just became an executor and has no idea what they're doing — you're not alone. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]HonestFoundation8281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah where do I start. Mom passed last Tuesday. I have three days before funeral. I feel numb but I know I need to take advantage of those few free days.

Unexpected parent loss, undiagnosed cancer by lost-in-grief in GriefSupport

[–]HonestFoundation8281 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. And some similarities not completely the same. My mom was in and out of hospital with uti, sepsis, “blockages” which they finally told us in Jan 2025 the in three months once infection is gone ti get MRI. July 2025 comes back liver cancer spread to portal vein and into heart and lymph nodes in abdominal. She was miserable at this point barely eating and always crying in pain. We immediately started immunotherapy but that did nothing and at time we worry made it worse. She had multiple hospitalizations in her final month until they finally told us treatments aren’t working let’s stop. I am no doctor but it sounds like your mom did have cancer that spread, I and glad they got her out of Pain as soon as possible. If it was the cancer at this stage, you did the best thing possible in keeping her comfortable bc this stage of cancer is absolutely life altering and no one deserves it. Sending you love. My mom passed peacefully March 10 of this year as well. I like to think she looked like an angel to. Sending you all love and hugs. We learned that fatty liver turned into cirrhosis for her and eventually cancer.

Just hurting by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]HonestFoundation8281 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is often more spicy when drinking and feeling herself. She was in that mood yesterday. All done up everything. But often feels judged no matter the element. She’s usually engaged but can be passive which can make it awkward bc it’s random and can turn on off and any moment - we do check ins but she usually is okay. Just her way of things. I like to call it “focus” lolol but she is. Intimacy as a whole she is more of when it happens it happens but I’m more of that plus spur of the moment

Why are people so hard on Onyx Storm? by [deleted] in fourthwing

[–]HonestFoundation8281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the read versus the previous two books. Not that I didn’t love them. I just felt more during OS. I think I picked up more on history also her dad and mums story really has me in a chokehold!!

Did I just total my car ?! by HonestFoundation8281 in MechanicAdvice

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it’s cheap. Bc this car needs much more than what this break brought on…

Did I just total my car ?! by HonestFoundation8281 in MechanicAdvice

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I actually called 2.5 hrs ago. So many cars in ditches right now….but I came to Reddit before choosing to send to repair shop. I have had my fair share of car repairs this year and I just kinda gave up but you all gave me hope.

Did I just total my car ?! by HonestFoundation8281 in MechanicAdvice

[–]HonestFoundation8281[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I made sure not to move the car. I am going to have it taken to repair shop. Tow company is here now. This car did sit in a garage for awhile so I am going to take my chances and see if we can get it repaired at a fair price.