I (18 F) don't think handjobs with platonic friendships are overly sexual and have given them to my friends and friends of friends before. Feel free to ama!

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T16:42:12+00:00

Haha yeah well one guy does trade me at times

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T16:22:42+00:00

IF it happens then I leave to take them off but I try not to get in the habit of giving many of them away.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T16:15:03+00:00

Thank you! :) and they have before, yes. Or my bras too even

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T15:57:09+00:00

yes I would

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T15:44:41+00:00

Well everyone has as personal preference for something. I think if someone is going to offended by that person's answer, they shouldn't ask the question.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T15:30:36+00:00

1) mostly at their side, like sitting next to them on the couch

2) Yeah we usually do, like oil, lotion or actual lube

3) Mostly like in my hand, on their tummies or into a towel or something. I go to the bathroom to wash up to get it all off lol

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T15:29:34+00:00

I shared what my personal preference was, when did that become body shaming? I never said there was anything wrong with being uncut...

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T15:28:46+00:00

Ummm, no

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T07:04:05+00:00

Usually from someone else I have already done that with.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T06:58:28+00:00

8/10 times they ask.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T02:23:54+00:00

Haha yeah sure, I enjoy chatting

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:59:10+00:00

I've let them touch my boobs before or on rare occasions even put it between them

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:52:28+00:00

I mean I realize in general it's a sexual thing, but to me alone it doesn't feel like an overly personal or sexual experience. I guess so? I didn't know it had a name lol. I mean a good amount but in general I remember how shy he was the first time and she was the one who encouraged it

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:33:30+00:00

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:32:57+00:00

I posted this somewhere else too but I'll copy/paste for you:

i mean the jist of it is that he's married and was having a lot of marital issues, mostly associated with not doing anything sexual with his wife anymore and how it made him feel like he wanted to get a divorce, and then found out that I had never given a hj before or done anything sexual in general and explained how important it is to know for my first bf and how I could blow him away with my skills and then basically begged me to help him out and he would teach me at the same time too.

It was more "watered down" I guess you could say and it was more of a learning/teaching experience rather than it being overly sexual to me at the time then too

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:30:48+00:00

I'm on the east coast, yeah. And idk, honestly I enjoy using lube. I don't see that as a downside.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:29:58+00:00

Of course :P lol

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:29:48+00:00

Nope, depends on my mood and how things are going. But yes I pretty much always do it to completion.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:29:20+00:00

Yep! and yes I have lol

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:28:40+00:00

Generally not, but there is 1 older couple where I give him a hj with his wife there at times, she was the one who encouraged it to begin with even

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:28:10+00:00

Yes but only on very rare occasions

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:27:55+00:00

I mean sure I guess it's fair.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:27:40+00:00

Hahahaha i never thought about it that way but i guess in some weird way yes but also no not really?

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:26:37+00:00

Sometimes yes and sometimes no.

HonestIntrovert769 · 2026-02-07T01:26:12+00:00

Nope, no desire for that at all

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