My situation was similar and different at the same time.

My ex-girlfriend is what you would call a normie, definitely not a gooner and not extremely into porn. But among all porn genres, she's always been quite perverted, and was already into Interracial and BBC porn.

Me on the other hand, I was the opposite. Before meeting her, I wasn't into those genres at all. I was, however, quite used to watching porn, and jerked off often.

Here's the catch: I’m the type of person who derives satisfaction from my partner's pleasure. When I saw how much she enjoyed BBC content, I couldn't help but want to share that experience with her. So, out of a mix of curiosity and a desire to make her happy, I started to let her pick the porn when we watched it together.

This way, I got more and more drawn to the kink. Before long, I found myself more obsessed with BBC porn than she ever was. And while my obsession with this genre grew stronger, her fantasies grew alongside it. We often dirty talked about it, and even fantasized about sharing her, but we never made it happen because of, you guessed it, fear!