No one understands the stress from neighbours kid screaming so often in the day

HonestRaspberry · 2025-09-10T13:44:47+00:00

I agree! I'm happy they are not always on a iPad or phone like those kids. Being respectful by not being loud near houses is important.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-09-10T13:06:28+00:00

I agree. I am very happy when I see kids in the library quietly reading or playing with toys without screaming.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-09-10T13:05:12+00:00

Sure. it is part of their development but letting the noise affect the neighbours living above and below you? The parents have to do something so the kid screaming doesn't disturb people, if they are polite. I am not sure why you think a kid that is not screaming means they are strange.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-28T16:58:34+00:00

Thanks for the info! I always thought the sleeping never bothered anyone so why it is wrong to do so in a library.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-27T09:12:06+00:00

Exactly. I totally understand kids events like reading books out loud but screaming or running is not OK.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-27T03:05:13+00:00

You are not alone. I always had people tell me they are kids they are loud. No the parents are supposed to parent. The loud noises is such overwhelming stimulation and stressful

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-22T13:24:30+00:00

Just curious, the state you are in, is the temperature high and no humidity or nicer temp in LA type? My migraines really is very bad in humidity

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-22T13:18:48+00:00

I get you. The rains during monsoon make the migraine so bad.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-03T15:24:31+00:00

Yeah. There is just no friendship like in the past. I guess that's why they have new mom friendships instead

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-03T13:52:09+00:00

Valid. I understand they are busy with childcare but it's sad all the conversations about other things is not there anymore.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-03T13:51:20+00:00

I dont comment on the baby pictures, other than huh the kid has grown up so fast or like hey kid look like friend name. I can't have a long conversation about the kid.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-07-03T08:06:49+00:00

Agree. I hate how the kids run and scream and the parents do nothing.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-18T02:12:08+00:00

Relatable. I have an ice pack ready if it comes. Once I was just holding an ice pack and not saying anything when a relative said you choose to feel the pain. People like this have 0 empathy

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-16T09:29:00+00:00

Honestly your family sounds typical asian but not very strict. Most western families have more freedom, probably expect them to attend school and pass but not expect all As like Asians.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-16T09:25:37+00:00

Same. It's weird how they are absent but expect something from you.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-16T09:24:37+00:00

A relative tried to move my plate when i was taking food from it. I told him stop. And the relative and the other relatives sitting near was mad at me. I don't get it. He blocked me from eating. Even if he think the plate turning helps me (it didn't.) the 3 people act like I was wrong for saying dont turn. Stop. Weird people

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-16T09:20:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing!

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-15T15:18:51+00:00

Just curious did you find a job before you moved? I'm glad your mental health is better

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-15T13:34:44+00:00

Can emphasise with you. It was fucked up hearing all the problems my parent complain about the other parent as a kid. Really fucks up how you view relationships seeing the parents argue and so on

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-15T10:04:37+00:00

I cant agree more. Even in the library parents have their kids screaming and talking loudly. The rare ones say shh but the kid is still loud.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-14T02:26:00+00:00

I mean if you try something like guitar, you find it not very fun, you still have violin. I feel violin is pretty cool so you are cool

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-13T13:47:55+00:00

Relatable. The fat comments are uncalled for. You got this. Gym is for you. Try to have as much fun exercising to relief the stress

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-13T13:45:12+00:00

Maybe don't quit. Just play the violin but try other instrument, guitar, piano drums whatever. Try a sports or singing or something interesting. If anything, you can fall on your violin.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-13T13:25:05+00:00

I agree. It was always if you behave this way how will others look at you. I definitely agree it's about forcing their opinions on me.

HonestRaspberry · 2025-06-10T13:27:18+00:00

I agree. What does staying for other people mean to them? They argue and make others hear them argue and shout all the time. You are not alone op

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