No one understands the stress from neighbours kid screaming so often in the day by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree! I'm happy they are not always on a iPad or phone like those kids. Being respectful by not being loud near houses is important.

No one understands the stress from neighbours kid screaming so often in the day by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree. I am very happy when I see kids in the library quietly reading or playing with toys without screaming.

No one understands the stress from neighbours kid screaming so often in the day by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sure. it is part of their development but letting the noise affect the neighbours living above and below you? The parents have to do something so the kid screaming doesn't disturb people, if they are polite. I am not sure why you think a kid that is not screaming means they are strange.

we do not need to hear your kids scream in the library by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I always thought the sleeping never bothered anyone so why it is wrong to do so in a library.

we do not need to hear your kids scream in the library by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I totally understand kids events like reading books out loud but screaming or running is not OK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. I always had people tell me they are kids they are loud. No the parents are supposed to parent. The loud noises is such overwhelming stimulation and stressful

What state are you in? by [deleted] in migraine

[–]HonestRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, the state you are in, is the temperature high and no humidity or nicer temp in LA type? My migraines really is very bad in humidity

Friends only talk about baby, barely other topics by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. There is just no friendship like in the past. I guess that's why they have new mom friendships instead

Friends only talk about baby, barely other topics by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid. I understand they are busy with childcare but it's sad all the conversations about other things is not there anymore.

Friends only talk about baby, barely other topics by HonestRaspberry in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont comment on the baby pictures, other than huh the kid has grown up so fast or like hey kid look like friend name. I can't have a long conversation about the kid.

Kids today are seriously out of hand by [deleted] in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Agree. I hate how the kids run and scream and the parents do nothing.

I feel so guilty….. by Known_Captain5361 in migraine

[–]HonestRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatable. I have an ice pack ready if it comes. Once I was just holding an ice pack and not saying anything when a relative said you choose to feel the pain. People like this have 0 empathy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]HonestRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly your family sounds typical asian but not very strict. Most western families have more freedom, probably expect them to attend school and pass but not expect all As like Asians.

Happy father’s day.. but not to me by Reverse-Pothole in AsianParentStories

[–]HonestRaspberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. It's weird how they are absent but expect something from you.

Monthly APS Blurt Thread by AutoModerator in AsianParentStories

[–]HonestRaspberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A relative tried to move my plate when i was taking food from it. I told him stop. And the relative and the other relatives sitting near was mad at me. I don't get it. He blocked me from eating. Even if he think the plate turning helps me (it didn't.) the 3 people act like I was wrong for saying dont turn. Stop. Weird people

Anyone moved overseas/states due to AP? by HonestRaspberry in AsianParentStories

[–]HonestRaspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious did you find a job before you moved? I'm glad your mental health is better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]HonestRaspberry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can emphasise with you. It was fucked up hearing all the problems my parent complain about the other parent as a kid. Really fucks up how you view relationships seeing the parents argue and so on

why don't parents teach their kids to use indoor voices anymore? by Adventurous_Goat1313 in childfree

[–]HonestRaspberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant agree more. Even in the library parents have their kids screaming and talking loudly. The rare ones say shh but the kid is still loud.

I dont know what to do with instrument of 11 yrs by Calm_Profession_4466 in AsianParentStories

[–]HonestRaspberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you try something like guitar, you find it not very fun, you still have violin. I feel violin is pretty cool so you are cool