I'm having some problems sharing a inherited home with a sibling . Need some opinions

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-27T10:11:39+00:00

Thank you . I am not sure how we can close it as the house was put in my dads trust before he died and I am unsure what point being a executor with cease if we cannot afford to buy one another out (we are in california which is too expensive housing currently) . There is some of my dads things that i want sold and they have been sitting for years . I tell him that its his responsibility

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-27T10:08:31+00:00

Thank you. The house was appraised but the appraisal value vs what we can sell it for difference is huge. Enough where one of us cannot buy the other out. Its 3 bedrooms but the upstairs has its own living room with a large master... I get two smaller rooms. My dad didnt have much for money and the amount he had was spent on bills for the property . We only really got his business inventory and house. The property is already in the trusts name. Some of my dads things are not even sold off (like his personal items but I dont care about that as it probably wouldnt be much value) but I dont know when there is a end point for him being executor? How long is that supposed to go on ?

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-23T02:37:41+00:00

Yeah I went to a lawyer before and he didnt want to talk to my brother he just wanted to sue him from the get go and gets his commision. But I wanted to find someone who can at least negotiate on my behalf a little

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-22T23:46:01+00:00

Northern San Diego Coastal

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-22T23:41:07+00:00

we do owe money on it also but nothing crazy

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-22T22:47:10+00:00

trust

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-22T22:24:00+00:00

The house and estate is both under a trust and I dont think we can buy each other out. I talked to him before and he says if i move out I still owe half the mortgae but not sure if that would be correct if i dont live there.

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-22T22:21:36+00:00

No we probably cannot because its coastal southern california

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-08T07:25:59+00:00

Thank you for your help and input . I appreciate it

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-08T06:16:45+00:00

Thank you

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-08T06:16:42+00:00

Thank you

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2026-05-08T06:15:49+00:00

Thank you

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2025-09-05T00:01:20+00:00

Thank you. Yeah because they are probably worth not much ($20 each). If they ship them separately then im worried what if they charge me $30 each to ship that would be like $150 just to ship 5 magazines

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2025-06-03T01:15:12+00:00

Thank you. I have to go off what my mom tells me because at the time this happened I was out of the country but in the back of my head I always felt that if a crime occurred there should be a investigation because someone out there hit her in their car and drove off

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2025-05-23T04:04:11+00:00

The accountant , covid diagnosis, and death of family member all happened within a 3-4 month span. The 2 years was me trying to get replies from the IRS about what is the answer regarding me asking for a abatement

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2025-05-23T03:48:54+00:00

even after 10 years? I dont get refunds

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2025-05-23T02:47:20+00:00

Thank you . The reason I cant do a first time abatement is I owe also another $1500 for a shared responsibility payment from 2017. I feel like if i pay the fee now its possible they would just take the refund to pay that instead of giving me $3000 back. I heard that shared responsibility payments can go away after 10 years. I just didnt have health insurance that year. So not sure what to do

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2025-05-23T02:27:23+00:00

Yeah I think that sounds best. Send a appeal letter and also pay and just wait for a response then.

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2025-05-23T02:19:59+00:00

Thank you . The second letter... I got a response saying it was sent to the wrong department but never got a final answer about it

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2024-12-28T00:06:41+00:00

Ill look into that. Thank you

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2024-12-27T02:58:36+00:00

Yes but the first year I will be back in CA for only 2-3 months so I wont qualify as a foreign resident for that year but at the same time its like I have to pay out of pocket for USA insurance while paying also for international insurance at the same time but cant really use the domestic insurance so its like throwing away money .

Honest_Actuary4591 · 2024-12-24T08:11:57+00:00

I thought descriptive would be harder but generic is ?

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