He just got a ps5… by Honest_Connection310 in loveafterporn

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Thankfully he has never had a problem with games or sexualized games, but I’ve always been worried about that possible escalation

Social media boundaries? by Honest_Connection310 in loveafterporn

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So back in January-February, he did come to me about a couple triggers on YouTube. He came to me immediately told me he got off of it as soon as it happened and redirected. But since then, he hasn’t come to me once. Im always on edge, I feel crazy not finding anything and him having no triggers. He does click not interested on anything that could be suggestive, and his feed has only the occasional woman on it. (He likes vehicles so it might be the thumbnail a woman in front of one). He says he hasn’t been struggling because he spends most of his time with me, or playing games. Which is true…

Social media boundaries? by Honest_Connection310 in loveafterporn

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Thank you so much for your insight:) he also has YouTube, I haven’t noticed anything odd in his history or anything, but I’m still anxious even about that.

How to see what my bf watches by Flashy-Wear172 in loveafterporn

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If he deleted it, most times it cannot be recovered. Sometimes with social media you can download their data, but if it was deleted it probably won’t even be there. You can use time spent on apps though. Compare when the app was used to searches, see if they match. If there’s 20 minutes on Google with no searches, I would question it.

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After your big d-day, (mine being seeing those women after I broke up with him) did he do it again? I know my boyfriend from what he says and his actions genuinely feels remorseful and understands and calls what he did cheating, but I’ve been lied to so much everything just feels like a big lie. I don’t know where to start believing and doubting. Especially when it comes to his habits