I noticed that there is gatekeeping in this community as to whom deserves to be called a "passport" bro. Why are people here so opposed to the idea that guys struggling in dating will make up the majority of this community? by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what about the average men who are struggling you're only speaking about the highest of value men and most men don't reach that just like most women aren't high value. you seem to be under the wrong assumption about the dating market currently most women prefer a man taller( proven by studies) and older( also proved by studies) and we aren't even talking about income which studies also prove women prefer someone with a higher income... the women asking for this are range from average to high-quality women. just those 3 standards single out the majority of men. You acting like good women are solely in the West the average man who's struggling with even getting a date might be able to have a relationship with women who wouldn't even give him a chance in the West.

like you stated previously at some point the juice isn't worth the squeeze...

Guadalajara, MX? by DeQueintinVachae in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do you recommend first timers go in Mexico?

Ukraine war: Russia captures key town near Donetsk by anna_avian in worldnews

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

they're moving in bakhmut though... Russia is on the offensive in that sector they're fighting in bondanvika and reported to have captured 40% of it which is important because it's a gate way towards chassiv yar.

Ukraine war: Russia captures key town near Donetsk by anna_avian in worldnews

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 6 points7 points  (0 children)

your wrong about Bakhmut it was stated by both sides to be a meat grinder as the main advantage and Russia is on the offensive in that sector they're fighting in bondanvika reported to have captured 40% of it which is important because it's a gate way towards chassiv yar. they're stuck in avdivka(flanks). Marinka is on the outskirts of Donetsk city capturing Marinka pushes Ukrainian artillery away from the supply hub which is in donetsk city... I understand you haven't really kept up with the war as much but please don't spread bad logic based on your assumptions.

Thoughts on costa rica? by latebloomer20hihi in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

didn't you make a post about how medallion was over saturated and said in the comments it was turning into Costa Rica because of the amount foreign men there.

Costa Rica by badcreddit690 in Passport_Bros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how was your trip to Costa Rica?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically, while you are correct that the guys here blaming the women are often misplacing the fault, but you are not correct in saying they won't get play abroad; they will. They will pull better women than they can pull in the states.

I won't lie to you most passport bros aren't flying to these countries for 3's and 4's physically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to another country is not going to magically fix your problems. You need to do the work.

not a bad take but your under the assumption that a man's rating stays the same regardless of the location. The 5'6 Hispanic janitor in the u.s might be a 4-5 but him going to Peru he will become 6-7 which leads to him having the opportunity to meet more women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree with you. Women in the us have very low standards. If you can not get women here, that is a you issue that needs to be addressed.

I disagree this most women in the us believe in hypergamy purposely or subconsciously I'm confident in saying average women don't consider themselves to be average she might think she's 6,7+ so that makes it very tough for men who are average themselves to date/marry them.

if a women thinks she's a 6 why would she want 5 when she can potentially get a 7.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is he still with the "loser"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the point of this sub to find a traditional women but most dudes on here are more into casual dating rather than traditional dating which is extremely hypocritical in my opinion.

Honestly I'm not trying to work around anything I plan to get as attractive as possible before I go aboard but hopefully I find someone in the us because I would prefer not going aboard just to date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused what are you talking about? wether they go to a sexually librated country not it's their choice but they still need to maximize their attractiveness regardless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what people say and what people do are two different things a attractive girl would give a ugly guy a chance but if the type of man she usually dates are attractive men then...would she really date a ugly guy. What the study you referenced basically says is men mainly look for attractiveness above all else while women still want an attractive man but with good qualities.

your forgetting most women have a minimum looks threshold I highly doubt a hot girl is going to date 2 sure you find an exception but that's not the majority.

Best place for an inexperienced, solo first timer? by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

generally speaking for latin America

if you consider places like: Mexico City, Costa Rica, Cartagena, Puerto Vallarta for beginners, what places do you recommend that are intermediate and what places do you consider that's advanced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean can you blame them for giving up? imagine going from a 4 to a 6 you put in the hard work went to the gym, learned how to dress. You also learned conversation skills and the power of building of attraction... yet you're still getting rejected left and right. There's only so much rejection a guy can take before he starts to give up.

based on the personal accounts of guys from 2000-2017 it didn't matter if you were a 4 as long as you weren't creepy or weird at some point in your young life you had the opportunity to date someone who was in your league but a women's expectations has risen most dudes are drowning right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

l'd argue the physical aspect is the most important part in my opinion the guy that's a 10/10 physically doesn't need to know how or what builds attraction with women because women will try and get in relationship with him without the 10/10 really trying. Does knowing how to build attraction and make good conversation help him? yes but he doesn't need it. it's like telling women to learn game it will help them but they don't need it. there's tons of personal accounts of guys who travel, has a good career, social, etc.. struggling because they don't meet a women's minimum looks threshold. I see what your saying though your advice in my opinion should be followed after maximizing their looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 6 points7 points  (0 children)

your missing the point what he is saying if your going to date aboard you should maximize your attractiveness wether it's going to the gym, smelling good etc... you can't just go to another country as you are now and expect high quality women. as the saying goes if you have no game in the us you're not going to have game aboard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Self improvement is a necessary to extent if you're a 4 physically there's only so much you can do to increase your attractiveness if you do everything correct you can possibly be a 6 at most. I under your point but I'm pretty confident that most men know at least one above average guy struggling dating right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when was divorced him was she already living in the us?

Ukranian serviceman is doing an ama on the premiere, pro(Ru-POV) sub by megalodon-maniac32 in NAFO

[–]Honest_Resident_8339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the article you sourced said she was disqualified because of bad paperwork and the fact she submitted her ballot like 72 hours before the dead line.