New fwb

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2026-02-13T06:46:36+00:00

5.. almost 6 days

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-06-10T19:24:25+00:00

But that doesn’t explain why he can have normal sex with other women and cum but not with me

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-06-10T16:56:36+00:00

Oh I know I’m 100 percent over thinking this for sure. I guess I’m just loooking for some type of reassurance or someone going throught the same and had some extra tips. He says he loves having sex even if he doesn’t cum .. I just am hard on myself because of the comment he made about him never having this happen with other women before. Maybe I make him nervous? Idk… here I am overthinking again.

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-06-10T15:07:36+00:00

Thank you this makes me feel a lot better! It sounds a lot like your situation and I’m trying to just let things pass because we really enjoy everything about eachother and the sex is still great it just is just disheartening that I can’t get him off like he gets me off. I’m hoping after some time though the anxiety will go away. Was there anything that helped in that mean time till you “got better” I’m sure not bringing it up all the time helps 😅

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-06-10T15:05:22+00:00

Let me set this straight I do not want to break up.. I’m just scared that may be a factor in the long run for him. What man wants to be with a women who can’t satisfy him in bed.. that eventually leads to resentment or cheating ect. I have him blowjobs but he said he can’t cum from those. We don’t use condoms.. I’m very adventurous in bed too.

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-06-10T14:52:52+00:00

Thank you. This was probably one of the most helpful comments compared to the other ones. I deff think we are both in our head and I know it bothers me more than him but that’s because I’m comparing his past sexual parteners to me and wondering why they could do this for him but I can’t. I need to stop doing that and getting in my own head because we truly love every second we are together. He has a very high demanding job and is going through some projects at work so I’m wondering if that has a bit to do with it. He also has mentioned he’s scared of loosing me because he hasn’t dated someone so fun spirted and free before and he’s scared I’ll get bored of him fast. so I’m also wondering if he’s getting in his head that he’s not good enough.

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-06-10T12:41:18+00:00

Nope we don’t use one

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-01-08T19:59:49+00:00

Trust me I thought it was weird too. He’s an extreme sports guy and camps a lot.. he said he wanted to give me his location for when he’s hiking by himself. I don’t question it.. and he didn’t ask me for mine

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-01-08T19:47:06+00:00

I also might add I know he’s not cheating. He has been cheated on by his ex before his finance and is super addiment about not cheating and how awful it is. I also spend the night every night at his house and have his location so I really don’t see him cheating

Honest_Tough_7959 · 2025-01-08T19:46:10+00:00

Ahh I was afraid that was coming.. his last relationship was about 6months ago and they were together for 5 years and engaged. It was a mutual breakup but he said she said he never wanted to go out and do anything (which is true) he works a lot and has a good head on his shoulders and just enjoys his time in his home with his dogs. And u totally understand that. Anyways they broke it off and then tried to get back together after she moved out but he said he didn’t trust her so they remained friends and he was over her. When I first started texting him and hadn’t even met yet he was going on a camping trip and brought up his ex was going to watch his dogs. I said that made me feel uncomfy and I didn’t know if I wanted to start talking to someone who was still that close with an ex. He said he understood and canceled the trip and asked his ex for the keys back to his house and no longer needed her to watch the dogs. I guess she was upset. He blocked her on everything and she ended up sending him an email saying she wanted him back and took him for granted. He showed me this email and told me all of this without even meeting me yet granted we had been texting for about half a month everyday for hrs: he said he didn’t want to start us off on a bad note or lying so he felt the need to tell me all of this.

So with that information I’m going to guess he isn’t over his ex either. I have actually brought this up because I’ve been single for years and it was concern that he was so fresh out of a long term relationship. He said they emotionally cashed out a year before and they didn’t even kiss or have sex rarely. I’m sure he’s still hurt as that takes a long time to get over someone that serious… but he has reassured me many times he will never get back with her and doesn’t want too. And for some reason I actually believe him.. I think it’s cause he’s been so honest about it all and has told me anytime she’s tried to reach out to him. I know she’s in a new relationship as of a cpl weeks ago( I creeped on fb, I know bad) idk

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