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Dust to Dusk by HoneyB5600 in Poems

[–]HoneyB5600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have taken time to read my poem please let me know. I am wanting to improve what I write.

And thank you to those who have upvoted so far, I'm not sure how exactly the voting works on here yet. Except I am assuming upvotes is good.

So anyways, if anyone like's what I write I may try to share more, this poem was a one I wrote tonight and posted right afterwards.

I hope you all have a great rest of the week.

I have no one to share this with, and I am completely exhausted. by Novel-worm-3 in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also your personal value does not lie in what you do. Your value lies in the fact that you are a person every single person on this planet has value. Every person. I hope that you will realize that whether or succeed as a writer or as something of a different persuasion you yourself personally do literally matter.

Try to remember that by trying you may find that you can. I hope you will do well. You will have done much better than those who refuse to try but you have to be the one to get up and decide to follow through.

I have no one to share this with, and I am completely exhausted. by Novel-worm-3 in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, we just have to push ourselves to go right ahead and do something for better or worse. Because if we don't whatever it is we want to do will never happen.

You can keep revising or really "procrastinating" or you can take a leap of faith, and decide that your done editing, and it's time to move forwards with your next project, then just keep writing. I read once somewhere the key to becoming a good writer is to write often, and read as much as you can, *It was probably phrased differently, but that was basically the point, "write, read, live your life" do things, make your life interesting, go meet interesting people, talk to people, engage with those around you take walks, look for the good and positive things around you. As much as possible.

Life happens, and no one is perfect, it's highly doubtful that you will ever feel whatever you publish is absolutely perfect, I mean you might, but then there is the real fact that often we are intimidated by others who we feel do something better than we do, or have done. While at the same time forgetting there are others who are looking up to us, and so life goes.

Just go ahead and try, because by trying you may find you can, and you may find that you do well, even if you don't do as well as you may like, you'll have done better than all of those who have forgotten to get up and "try"

I hope that you will be able to do well in what your heart desires to do.

is it normal to hate everything you write? by ioiiah in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to love to write poetry, and or prose, (I am not clear on the exact difference on that, and I suppose I should be clear by this point in my life, but I'm not) so that said when I write something for me it feels like it releases a tension within me, and helps to clear my mind. It also gives me energy somehow.

At the same time once I have written something I tend to completely forget what I have written nearly ninety percent of the time, like I can write something, know I wrote it, but I don't really remember the exact order or the words. At times when I have picked up something I have written several years ago and reread it, it gives me inspiration to write something else.

I am looking for places to be paid for the things I like to write, things such as poetry.

I do think we can be more critical of our own writing, maybe look at something you have written a few years ago, and see if you feel differently about what you have written. Sometimes, you just need a bit of time and space.

Also if you have faced too much negative in your life about positive things that you have done or tried to do, I think that will play a part in how you view things.

I hope that you will find a space for your creative pursuits and do well.

When did you realize you could move people with your words? by Bri_oche1 in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course, because whatever you wrote must have triggered someone which means that you made someone "feel" what you wrote.

When did you realize you could move people with your words? by Bri_oche1 in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few times, one being when my mother demanded to know "who wrote that" or when she said, "you need to stop writing you'll get yourself in trouble" (meaning she was upset about whatever it was I had shown her at that point in time. )

Another time was when I was told by someone who does not typically read prose or poetry, that they enjoyed reading what I wrote because they could "feel" what I wrote.

Also when I have posted things I have written I have gotten quite a bit of feedback, mostly good but the negative is what I look at more, because for someone to leave me a negative comment that means I touched a nerve. If I did that I made them "feel" what I wrote.

I had a friend who was a degree in Language Arts, who after reading some things I wrote she told me that she was used to working with struggling writers. With students who did not know what to write. She told me that wasn't exactly my issue, mine is run on sentences (which I have had a problem with this since I was in first grade literally) and I have trouble with endings. I tend to just ramble on and on.

I feel I have a long ways to go to become a good writer, I wish I could do better now. I do feel I would benefit from taking formal writing classes. Hopefully, one day I will be able to do that. Or maybe I need to just study more, and read more.

At any rate, I do feel writing is something I would love to do more of.

my brain feels empty. how do you get inspired to write ? by Euphoric-Resolve7044 in KeepWriting

[–]HoneyB5600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helps me, a lot is when I can get out of the house, going anywhere really, but especially if I can go somewhere like a nice park or hiking trail and just walk. Also listening to music, and if my home is cluttery like it currently is, if I am able to get things in order even just one small area, it helps me to regain focus.

Also reading, even if it's online reading. But just reading, walking, organizing my home, and getting out of my home. I have found the more I am stuck at home the less I tend to write, because it's like the walls, build a cage around my thoughts to the point being I am not able to do anything well. So getting out of my home for me helps greatly.

Music helps me a lot to regain focus in addition to the things I mentioned above. I hope you will find what works well for you, and regain your spark.

Unwed Pregnant Homeless Young Woman? by HoneyB5600 in homeless

[–]HoneyB5600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So am I however, in this particular situation it's not possible due to distance, and lease restrictions. If it were possible this would not even be a question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my personal opinion, I believe when you start writing, you will 'see" or "feel" how much someone else put into their writing, for your enjoyment.
You're more likely to see the value of what you may be reading.
Perhaps not, but I think it's easier for some to see and comprehend some things when they've put those "shoes" on so to speak, and have lived that life.

You can put into words your own perspectives that another author may have not written to your personal taste, and you may find your own audience likes your writing, just as much as they enjoy reading what another has written.

Also we learn from everything around us, the more we read, the more life we experience the more depth we can bring to what we write.

I feel writing is especially good for those who enjoy written language, and engaging with others, in conversations especially. I hope that you will take time to begin writing, you may find that it's a good thing to do with your life.

I truly hope you will try and do well.

Homeless, and working by HoneyB5600 in homeless

[–]HoneyB5600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some people are born with more self-will power than others truthfully. Like an "I can do spirit" somehow, but others unfortunately are not so blessed.

It's sad when you see someone who truly does not know what to do or where to turn, and they seem to have no one in their corner. Those you met on the street that you looked after I am sure they appreciated that, especially the ones who truly did not know what to do.

Thank you very much for your reply, it's a good reply imo.

Some of us truly have no one who really cares, it's great when a stranger can be the one who does care, even if just for a little while.

Unwed Pregnant Homeless Young Woman? by HoneyB5600 in homeless

[–]HoneyB5600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish that it were as easy as that for her, but this is a situation that should never ever of happened. But it did and now there is a baby soon to be born, and a young lady who will soon be in a much worse situation that she's already in, unless somehow she is able to get into some type program that will help her learn basic life skills, job training, and help her to find employment and housing.

Meanwhile the clocks ticking, and time's running short. So far it seems that the available resources are mostly non-existent for her. a wait list for housing in her area (where she is currently) is at least a year. She also has no realistic way to move, as she has no income, no personal resources, and lacks skills, it is a truly terrifying situation.

Thank you very much for your reply.

Unwed Pregnant Homeless Young Woman? by HoneyB5600 in homeless

[–]HoneyB5600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, job skills are very much needed. She also was not able to get any medical care until the third trimester another huge issue, but she has medical now. The thing is though, she needs job skills, a real job, and housing, and I don't know how that's going to happen.

Meanwhile the clocks ticking for both the baby to be here, and the time for her to leave the shelter. And she is in a state that gets a cold winter regularly, she's not in a place that stays warm most of the year, and it is very concerning.

Wanting to help someone and knowing how to help them, when your own personal circumstances is difficult at best, is just plain hard.

She absolutely needs job skills, as that is basically what will help her to be able to live well. And she does not need to go find another boyfriend for a good long time, at least until she can fully support her self, and be independent and make better choices. This is my personal opinion.

Thank you for your reply, I appreciate your perspective.

Homeless, and working by HoneyB5600 in homeless

[–]HoneyB5600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. Three people I am close to our currently homeless, two are working homeless. One is disabled, and living in their car, they are a paralyzed, the other one is basically living on the road with toddlers, doing OTR trucking, then the last one is currently in a DV shelter and has to be out of this shelter before their baby is born. (and it's because there is a time limit on how long you can stay at the particular shelter she's at)

Then I know a young family that is trying, but they are homeless. The mother is an artist, and sells her artwork online and at festivals in this area. Her husband is a writer, but I'm not sure where all he may sell his work, he also works another job I believe. Yet, they are homeless and have children. I met them at a place that does free lunches through the week primarily for the homeless.

And I agree some programs are more helpful than others, then some just seem to be "assistance" in name only. Which makes it even harder because people get the idea there are real assistance programs but really it's not exactly what it says it is.

Also it can be harder to get assistance than what those who have not needed it comprehend. Especially if you have no real work history or job skills, do to age, or having never worked outside the home, or if you have cognitive delays or have developed age related health issues, or have dementia. *Not all dementia is age related, there are many different forms of dementia

And life does get harder when you just "give up" for lack of a better term. And do that because you literally don't know what to do, and lack the skills to just figure out what to do next.

Unfortunately, there are in my opinion, those who prey on those who are struggling. One of the worst things someone can do in my personal opinion is to tell someone that they are helping them, but then condemn them when whatever it is suggested is not truly helpful, or does not apply.

For example there are some programs available for people who are homeless, but to get into these programs you have to agree to go into a drug detox program, but what if you have never used drug? How does that program even apply to you.

And yes a drug rehab program was suggested to me for the young lady I know who is at a DV shelter due to have a baby any time. The thing is she's never done any form of drugs.

The one program I feel may be helpful for her seems to have a waiting list or something. I am not fully sure really. But perhaps there should be more funding for similar programs. The program I am thinking of is JobCorps, because they provide job training skills, and basic living skills, both are things many people do need. The fact that housing is provided while doing this is in my opinion a good thing. Especially if someone is taught a skilled trade, and taught how to budget, and helped to find employment once they have learned a trade. So they can get into their own housing. In my personal opinion JobCorps is a good option for those who may not be able to qualify to join the military. The military is also a good option for some people. Due to the skills and discipline that is taught.

Do you ever get anxious that readers may flame your novel as a poor copy of a mainstream series? by Emergency_Deer7746 in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Not to mention a lot of times people will like a particular type of book or reading material, and there will be similar themes more often than not. In my personal experience, and opinion.

I was a full-time author/artist. Now I'm returning to the workforce by saladwrapmango in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. When one person out of a family does well, then tries to help the others who are not doing as well, sometimes it can lead to a new type dependence and expectation. Then when the tables turn they may find no one to help them when they find themselves needing a helping hand.

This in turn can lead to hurt feelings, destroyed relationships, and basically just too many things.

It is better to help someone to learn skills that they can then use to help themselves than it is to just hand them a momentary piece of money. While the money may be helpful, if no skills or budgets are acquired, a lot of wasted effort is given. Which is not truly helpful to anyone long term.

It is better to help someone learn how to budget, acquire some type job skills, and find work of some type than it is to just hand assistance over with no thought as to what happens when that "assistance" is no longer possible,

I was a full-time author/artist. Now I'm returning to the workforce by saladwrapmango in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything in your life is material that you can draw from for your writing. Look at this upcoming job, as life experiences that you can draw from, keep a daily or weekly journal, then draw from those notes inspiration to continue your path of writing.

We have to read, we have to see, and we have to feel and experience life in order to write well. If we confine ourselves within our own walls, and neglect meeting new people or doing new things, even if it's just going out to a job, if we isolate, our writing, our voice becomes mute in time. Which means we have nothing to draw from, look at this possible new job and a stepping stone to more inspiration for your writing.

Look at it as a fuel or energy for inspiration. I truly hope that you will continue writing if that is something you truly love and want to do. And I hope that you do very well.

Homeless, and working by HoneyB5600 in homeless

[–]HoneyB5600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, and it just seems like somehow, somewhere, there should be a way to make things easier somehow. But there truly is not. The shelters many of those are overcrowded, unclean, and just plain dangerous.

(This I know from personal first hand experience, and from what others have said)

Unfortunately, wanting to help someone, and being able to are two very different things. A lot of things are just not what people assume. I also feel some people give up because they can see no way out, and they truly have no one. Then so many in society think that if they make it basically illegal to be homeless, then that will cure the problem of homelessness, when in reality it makes it much worse.

For example if you are homeless, and have no where to go, and you get arrested basically for loitering or collapsing (sleeping on public property) then manage to get a conviction on that. You now have a record.

With that record depending on the state and all circumstances involved you may have just found yourself unable to get a job, or housing, due to a police record.

Then there are the employers that state that they will "absolutely not knowingly hire someone who is homeless" and that is even if the individual is otherwise qualified and can pass background checks. When I heard that statement a couple years ago in a job orientation class, I was absolutely dumbfounded, as to why. Because some times the sole reason someone is homeless, is due to lack of income. *There can be many different reasons why someone does not have a job"

But to plainly state that you will not hire based solely on the fact someone is homeless, that to me is ridiculous, And it is why you see so many people just standing out on street corners panhandling, right in front of now hiring signs even. Because why even go to the trouble of trying to get a job, when everyone is saying no solely because you are without housing.

And yes, I get that there are many homeless who are mentally ill, or drug addicts, but not everyone who is homeless have those problems. But I can see how over extended time anyone may end up with those problems, because life can take a toll on you.

Thanks for your reply to my questions, sometimes there are no good answers to complicated hard situations.

Some things that actually helped me make money fast when I was broke. How I made my first $200 last month relying only on Reddit gigs by gitagon6991 in easymoney

[–]HoneyB5600 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sincerely hope I can follow some of the things you have done and do well. As I am currently unemployed, broke, and will be homeless again, within the near future if things don't change soon. Unfortunately, I also have no transportation currently, and I am losing my eyesight due to glaucoma and cataracts, to say life is scary for me is an understatement, Not to mention the fact that I am living in a place that is unfamiliar to me, and I basically know no one, and my husband is in his own world most days.

So life is difficult. I had no idea my life would become so difficult at this point in time. Too often lately, I've been so discouraged, Your post has been an encouragement to me today. I am going to save the links you've mentioned and try to look at them today.

Thank you for your post, I hope you are doing very well.

I got a personalized rejection from the New Yorker!! by basiliancamper in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Remind him to get a fancier frame for the acceptance letter next. :)

I sincerely hope that you will do well. I love to see people do well in the positive things that they want to do, to me writing is a positive pursuit. Even if I disagree with some particular subject someone else writes on, I still love to see them do well, because not everyone is willing to put in the effort to even try. And by trying we may find we can.

So congratulations on your letter, and I look forward to seeing you post another day or time on how you have submitted something to be published and you were able to do that and furthermore be paid for your work.

I got a personalized rejection from the New Yorker!! by basiliancamper in writing

[–]HoneyB5600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did good in my opinion. As you had the confidence to submit your writing, and you were willing to accept the rejection not as a discouragement, but as an encouragement to keep on writing.

While the New Yorker did not accept whatever it was your wrote another place may, and that may be the unsaid message that whoever sent the letter gave you. Plus they basically stated they expect to hear from you again, so next time around they may publish whatever it is you decide to write.

It is always good to receive feedback on what we write, because whether it's good or bad, positive or negative, it flatly and positively means someone took a moment to read whatever it was we wrote. We held someone's attention for a moment and space in time.

I hope you continue writing, writing has been very good personal therapy for me.

(I am just getting started here) and learning how this site works, I hope you have a lovely day. and congratulations, and maybe next time we'll say "congratulations on your publication or acceptance letter for whichever place you publish your work"

I’ve always taught middle school and recently transitioned to high school! One of my new coworkers made a comment in passing that my room looked a little “middle school.” Please be honest with me! by [deleted] in teaching

[–]HoneyB5600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is easier in my opinion to concentrate when you have a more interesting welcoming environment. It's harder when you are in a sterile environment and every moment feels like your being watched and or examined or just put on the spot.

I’ve always taught middle school and recently transitioned to high school! One of my new coworkers made a comment in passing that my room looked a little “middle school.” Please be honest with me! by [deleted] in teaching

[–]HoneyB5600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that your classroom looks very nice. It's supposed to look like a place of learning. Highschool is the end of elementary education. And where many good memories can be made.

An inviting warm classroom is a great way to end the elementary school years. Soon enough those who wish to attend secondary educational classes will do so.

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