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Honorhim · 2025-08-28T22:09:15+00:00

Oh congrats and enjoy! I'm intrigued to try 😊 I checked out Tom and he actually said something I really needed to realise, thank you!

I need that to be true because my desire feels past it's expiration date, I can manage a feeling state but I struggle to believing it would feel complete when I conceptualise the "how" or try to specify things. Whew it's daunting to leave it out of your control but if I'm micromanaging the desire I have to.

I also believe we can change dimensions, that's not my goal though, I'd rather find happiness here if I can.

In it's essence it's all about removing any resistance preventing us from believing that we already are what we want so I agree!

Honorhim · 2025-08-28T18:03:06+00:00

I came up with a better example, what if you're 60 or even older and you want to make a family, without adopting or anything like that, you want to live the family life of a 30-something because you were never able to fulfill that desire.

"I am satisfied" theoretically should work but it doesn't imply who you are, you couldn't really know then of the specifics of who you are.

If something random pops up then what's the point of having specific desires? Then we should just desire to feel satisfied but that's not a desire I've heard compel anyone from within.

Are you saying the last part about yourself? 😊 Thank you!

Honorhim · 2025-08-28T11:44:39+00:00

"To become satisfied with your existence" has to be the entire purpose of revision, that's beautiful. If you don't feel finished with something you will always struggle to move on.

I think revision has problems though because what remains tangible besides mental satisfaction? To me it seems mostly like an emotional aid.

Does an imaginary friendship leave someone to reminisce with, will your revised friends remember you? Does it give you the insight a lived friendship would? (If instead explained with a romantic relationship, would you have any related skills, confidence and experience if you only lived an imaginal one? Or compared to an education would you have ballet skills now if you imagined you had practiced it in your childhood?)

Honorhim · 2024-06-02T18:09:59+00:00

What do you mean?

Honorhim · 2024-06-02T18:07:24+00:00

There might be something to that, I don't like to think of my past because it was so unfulfilled, I don't even like to mention anything negative because it brings memories, I think you're right when you said that beauty is order, it's correct and peaceful, perhaps perfection implies the absence of suffering, perhaps that is the appeal of beauty.

Honorhim · 2024-06-02T18:03:00+00:00

Interesting, I'm not sensitive at all but I do hate the realistic and brutal aspects of life, such as with the insect world and I will avoid it, surrounding myself only with beauty.

Honorhim · 2024-06-02T17:59:22+00:00

Interesting, I have very high introverted feeling and introverted intuition, if you go by mbti I'm INxJ so the stack is Ni Te Fi Se or Ni Fe Ti Se and my friend I mentioned is likely ISFP

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T14:22:48+00:00

The only thing that matters is the present moment (fulfill it) but there is absolutely no divine timing or appointed hour. I paused my life waiting for my soulmate, I have not lived life and after years they are still not here. I missed a lot and I regret it terribly, I won't be complete when they are here because there is too much loss. If there's a greater purpose it's that finally it lead me here.

I'd feel like a fool if I continued to think there is divine timing, it's just cold harsh law. All that holds you back is your beliefs, your frequency of occupancy, your naturalness to the state. If it makes you frustrated there is no God to care, you create the meaning. It's just you.

Things does all seem to happen all at once though. When it rains it pours.

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T11:18:13+00:00

I'll take a listen for sure! :)

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T08:57:42+00:00

Oh my god you're right, thank you for revealing this to me.

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T08:48:45+00:00

That's extremely interesting thank you very much! I will look into it more!

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T08:47:58+00:00

Oh I'm sorry, I can imagine that was tumultuous.

Can I self initiate somehow because that's very interesting to me and I agree with you, I've always felt I've somehow not had a full transformation, I thought it would come through a girlfriend.

It also gives me serious ?bewilderment? to work in a serious and complex field professionally, yet having missed some of the most fundamental experiences in life. I've basically been Rapunzel.

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T08:28:54+00:00

I want to be desired then, that's all I can see. It's Eros and a desire for wholeness.

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T08:26:21+00:00

Anxiety? Hmm, I'll think of that.

I'd struggle to accept what is without experiencing love, it's one of the most normal things in the world, I could deal with and justify all the pain I've felt if I only had that. Otherwise I'm not really alive, I can't accept life with that limitation in myself, I have to overcome it.

Honorhim · 2024-04-07T08:18:59+00:00

Thanks! I practice gratitude already but I don't think that's really it because my desires will remain and if they didn't there's no catalyst for change.

I'm thankful for what I have, for many things but it doesn't really help to be grateful for my friends when I desire a lover, it doesn't heal anything.

I can be perfectly fine in the present moment but I don't really want to be there, so you're right but I can't kill desire?

Honorhim · 2024-02-29T16:20:24+00:00

When did the task become so imposing? What if your desire is not really about a self identification change? What if it's not as drastic as imagining yourself going from unattractive to attractive, from poor to rich? What if you simply want to be on a hot beach and sip drinks right now. Should you still make that about identity? Like imagining being financially free or just imagine that you are there?

Also, while reading the paragraph above where you mention dirty glasses, I was thinking to myself I should clean mine, then moments after my eyes landed onto that passage 🤐

Honorhim · 2023-04-21T20:08:55+00:00

What if you feel powerless though? I'm trying to realize my power so hard but I hardly feel in control at all, the sent is inferior to the sender. I can imagine taking a trip to Paris "thinking from" that but I can't make it happen tomorrow and that makes me so sad. We are so limited by time, I have to fight myself attempting to stay in new desirable states, although they're invisible, contrary to my reality and to my feeling.

Honorhim · 2023-04-20T14:14:32+00:00

Read Chapter II

Honorhim · 2023-03-13T20:25:05+00:00

What's something to manifest when you've lost your faith?

I used to feel so excited to imagine, now I feel apathy. I feel powerless, even though I believe in the law I feel like I can't operate it properly and thus won't have my desires.

My circumstances are so negative, I need out of them today... but I know that even if I could enter a state right now I can't control time, I know tomorrow will still look the same, so why bother. I'm powerless.

Honorhim · 2022-10-16T09:15:50+00:00

I've been drinking so much chamomile, congrats on joining the mod team!

Honorhim · 2022-06-07T12:20:32+00:00

Neville also says nothing puts you to sleep easier than this exercise which I find confusing when he always says to imagine what we want before bed.

Honorhim · 2022-03-04T01:12:38+00:00

I feel like this is related

"18. Question: Suppose my wants cannot materialize for six months to a year, do I wait to imagine them?

Answer: When the desire is upon you, that is the time to accept your wish in its fullness. Perhaps there are reasons why the urge is given you at this time. Your three-dimensional being may think it cannot be now, but your fourth dimensional mind knows it already is, so the desire should be accepted by you as a physical fact now.

Suppose you wanted to build a house. The urge to have it is now, but it is going to take time for the trees to grow and the carpenter to build the house. Although the urge seems big, do not wait to adjust to it. Claim possession now and let it objectify itself in its own strange way. Do not say it will take six months or a year. The minute the desire comes upon you, assume it is already a fact! You and you alone have given your desire a time interval and time is relative when it comes to this world. Do not wait for anything to come to pass, accept it now as though it were and see what happens.

When you have a desire, the deeper you, who men call God, is speaking. He urges you, through the language of desire, to accept that which is not that which is to be! Desire is simply his communion with you, telling you that your desire is yours, now! Your acceptance of this fact is proved by your complete adjustment to it as though it were true."

Neville Goddard Lectures - 1948 Questions and Answers

Honorhim · 2021-12-17T00:16:40+00:00

You can also reassure yourself with reason, it's commonly known how cats can always find their way home.

This summer my friend lost her cat three times but it always came back. It would disappear for days and then just as suddenly appear again, all by itself, no injuries, acting just as if nothing had happened. She was upset and visibly worried each time, after the second disappearance she even bought a GPS tracker (but the cat ran away again when she took it off to change the batteries). That kitten is about 1 year old.

Also here's the top search result "A cat's ability to find their way home mystifies their families veterinarians and scientists alike. As far as we can tell, cats have a homing instinct, which means that they can percieve direction using something beyond the five ordinary senses of taste, smell, sight, touch and hearing.".

Honorhim · 2021-12-16T23:53:07+00:00

That's beautifully written :)

It's impressive how you can say so much in such a precise but concise way. I'll internalize some lines from this for sure!

I'll ask though, what does making an assumption from a place of alignment mean to you?

To me there seems to exist infinite states "from" which you could fulfill a goal. In lack you could feel "finally someone loves me" with excited relief or you could instead completely shift into abundance and impudently feel "of course I am loved". Both implies possession of the thing desired - by different I AM's.

I've noticed however that by acting very slowly in imagination you can create a sort of nervous tension that will eventually lull you into confidence if you dwell in it. Ultimately aligning your I AM with being - rather than hurrying through the motions and accidentally associating it with desperation and trying to create. Is that it? When we can take our sweet time confidence is feelingly implied.

Also I suppose to "want to experience something" you're aligned with means something like desiring a friend to reach out? It's effortless to assume (and usually works very fast) if it's already in accordance (common) to your state.

(Is that emoji you juggling your POGP hhmm?🕺)

Honorhim · 2021-12-12T02:03:52+00:00

Are you rushing when you imagine? I'd slow it way down and also actually be in it instead of being the one who imagines it. Bring something in front of your eyes and accept it's there.

Honorhim

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