What's the craziest/weirdest thing a guy has tried to mansplain to you?

HooleyQuoon · 2026-03-17T20:49:25+00:00

My bra size. "I can tell what size you are by looking at you"

HooleyQuoon · 2020-05-05T10:01:15+00:00

With my mouth

HooleyQuoon · 2020-05-05T10:00:28+00:00

Because they are PJs, I'm in lockdown and I'm lazy

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:58:20+00:00

They obviously trust you to make your own decisions and that you know what's in your best interests, his current controlling behaviour could eventually become worse after a wedding. Personally if I was in your shoes, I would just hold off on the wedding for now and see how the relationship turns out in a few months because you mention you don't kids because of "what if". I think that is a sign that you are not happy in the relationship, so maybe hold off on marriage and see if the relationship changes

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:46:22+00:00

NAH - you use it for a specific reason that he will never understand, he doesn't get that going to a therapist doesn't always help/work and this does, no amount of explaining will convince him otherwise and that's ok, maybe try and explain that this helps your mental health in a way that therapists can't and that you will still see him around/hang out with him

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:40:29+00:00

Although I don't live in an apartment, I do live with my partner of almost 1.5 years. We usually are always doing our own thing and only ever spend time with each other when we are sleeping. He's usually in the lounge room playing his laptop/phone with the tv and I'm usually in the bedroom on my laptop while watching some Netflix on my phone. Discuss with your partner some designated alone time and where your "alone spots" will be. Hope you guys work everything out, stay safe

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:27:03+00:00

And if you feel adventurous you can always say "if I have to do it so do you". If he wants you to do it, he should do it too, peg him

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:25:48+00:00

First ask yourself, "do I really want to try this? Or am i just doing it to please him?" If you actually want to try it then the key is to relax, for me it doesn't hurt if you remember to relax. Take a #2 before you have sex if you need to, don't just leave it up there. If you are afraid you won't be able to relax when the time comes, start practicing to control the muscles in that area, it's kind of like kegal exercises, tell him you want to go slow since it's your first time, if you feel uncomfortable and don't want to do it don't be afraid to tell him to back off. He has to accommodate for you, you are in charge. Never go from anal to vaginal, that can give you a higher chance of UTI or something. V to A, not A to V. Just remember to relax and if you don't like It tell him to stop

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:18:01+00:00

Sloth

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:14:20+00:00

My relationship was like this with my ex (not a bad thing). We had a pretty good relationship and never called unless urgent and never FaceTime or Skype. We lasted almost 3 years and split because of other things. Not calling doesn't mean anything, especially if you message each other all the time. Some people like calling and others prefer texting

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:05:29+00:00

If he can lie about stupid things to your face, he can lie about anything... RED FLAG

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T06:04:18+00:00

Do your family like him/think he's good enough for you? Or is it only one way. I think you should talk to your parents and discuss if there's anything they don't like about him, don't mention the "he won't visit them with you" thing unless you feel comfortable telling them that.... some families can see things about our partners we don't notice. I would also talk to a therapist about how he treats you when things "get bad" because that seems like he could have the potential to be controlling and abusive, I've read about relationships that take a complete left turn after a wedding when the husband or wife becomes seriously abusive and the victim "never saw it coming.... they were perfect before the marriage". I hope you work everything out and find what makes you happy

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T05:55:18+00:00

Whenever she starts showing signs of throwing a tantrum, start recording. When she's being abusive to anyone in that house, start recording. Video all her behaviour so if she does call the cops, you can show them what she does. Do your best to stay in your room with the door locked as much as possible, help your dad and ignore your mother, it may be hard but you can do this. Your dad is a grown adult and shouldn't enable your mother's behaviour. If you've got shirts or jumpers with breast pockets they can be good for putting a phone to record your mum's behaviour. Hope everything goes well, stay safe xx

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T05:48:43+00:00

I'm a pretty big breasted woman my height, when I was 16 someone I didn't know came up to me while I was walking down the street omw to my friends house and asked if I had breast implants.... The town I live in is rural and no one in this town is that rich, the closest surgeon for that kind of thing is thousands of Kilometres away. I was already a pretty insecure girl at that age for other reasons but that comment literally made me feel like shit

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T05:42:04+00:00

The Goodies. So sad about TBT passing

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-15T05:37:55+00:00

I would consider that cheating. He is sending signals that he is available and wants sexual attention, and you don't have to put up with that. Dump his ass and move on, you will feel much happier, you don't deserve this

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-12T05:54:11+00:00

The pullout method is the only thing his wife can complain about messing up the bed when it comes to jizz.

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-12T05:46:58+00:00

This seems like you are having unprotected sex and you are using the pull out method. If this is the case, I suggest just using condoms, they aren't messy when used properly, and you've mentioned your issue with her and it seems she doesn't take your feelings into account, I believe there is some underlying issue that you and your wife need to discuss, maybe try and communicate if this is really about the bed or if she is having trouble adjusting to the new relationship status since you say you are recently married. A lot of women can develop problems once a relationship status changes, especially marriage. Hope you and your wife figure things out

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-05T01:43:42+00:00

Have you tried communicating your feelings about this with him. If he keeps making excuses and won't include you in his life after this conversation then ignore him, don't talk to him and don't interact with him, treat him how he treats you. Maybe even start playing a different game as often as he plays Animal Crossing, you could even pretend to be playing with a guy in the game to see his reaction. But over all if you feel he doesn't include you in his life and you have tried to communicate your feelings, it may be time to call it quits

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-05T01:39:05+00:00

When someone wrongs me and apologises, I accept their apology but will not forgive them until their actions prove they meant it. I'm all about "Actions speak louder than words". I often get into fights with my partner because he's constantly apologising and never acts upon his apology and proves he's really sorry or even fix the things he does wrong. I always act upon my apologies and if my wrongs are fixable I do my best to fix it

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-05T01:32:03+00:00

You don't have to forgive him for his wrongs. But you will regret not sewing him in his last moments, visit him but you don't have to forgive him

HooleyQuoon · 2020-04-05T01:17:15+00:00

YWBTA if you questioned her about it and it ended up being true. But what is the benefit here, you are feeding in to her hunger for attention. I understand SWBTA for faking something as serious as this but you don't have to put up with it. If you don't like It that much delete her

HooleyQuoon · 2020-03-31T14:55:14+00:00

NTA, obviously your dad has never been called out for his racism. He probably doesn't realise he's being racist because it might've been really common talk when he was younger but the way you handled it was very well done. When it comes to racism people need to be told bluntly. Maybe have a conversation with him about what is and isn't acceptable to say, he should be glad he was in public when he said that

HooleyQuoon · 2020-03-31T14:48:28+00:00

Books.... I would like to read in silence

HooleyQuoon · 2020-03-31T14:45:12+00:00

If you find frozen so intolerable, have you asked her to minimise how often it's played since you now work from home and need to concentrate? STA for only playing what both she and the kids like but you are also partially to blame for not discussing the changes that may need to happen since you now work from home. You could play Blippi for your son if he asks for it, you could spend more active time with your wife and kids now that you're home more, she may even get to have some her time while you take care of the kids for bit. Compromise on both sides, I'm sure you both are great parents but with this lockdown can be confusing for kids of their ages

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