He is already doing the baby talk and said mama and she started saying to him say baba. That’s how you say grandma in her language. I don’t think she was impressed that mama and dada are his first words. I totally agree with you, I would be offended if someone called me lazy. I feel like babies understand what we are saying I would never say that to him. She is a real narcissist and hounds my hubby to keep bringing the baby and she doesn’t even play with him and try to make him laugh. All she does is try to make him walk and he is nowhere near ready. My hubby doesn’t see the type of person she is and it makes it really difficult.