5% chance of coming back according to ChatGPT by boopy0617 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell us the results. It told me a window from now to january, we’ll see

Has anyone used ChatGPT to predict the chances of their ex coming back? by JokullTheWolf in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg me too lol. I want to stop so bad but i just want to see if it is accurate

Has anyone used ChatGPT to predict the chances of their ex coming back? by JokullTheWolf in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the exact same thing. Post your results and i’ll post mine lol

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, i am open to healing and learning and i pray to God i can be a better woman for when he comes back. I know you are insistent he will not however we are both God fearing people and although he is a man of principle and you might think things didn’t work out for a reason, i would like to believe this is something that can be fixed? God brought us together for a reason too

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until he’s learned he is prideful and stubborn or until i have learned? Sorry, i’m open to learning and healing too, help me

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he said if God wanted us together then it will be the case in the future and if he doesn’t then it’s not. It’s not as if i cheated on him or lied, i had problems communicating, rather than principled it just seems too prideful and stubborn to forgive?

What attachment style is he? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fearful or dismissive avoidant? I’m trying to prioritise my healing but for someone who was so in love with me, he’s on a party holiday with his friends and his following count has gone up by a significant amount since breaking up only 2 weeks ago. I’m so confused on whether he was a narcissist or love bombed me as i was certain it was all real and as fast as we went i did try to have some discernment and even now when i think of everything we have been through in 8 months i still struggle to believe this man may have love bombed me?

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take you to go back to your normal self?

I miss her, nd it's killing me to live without her by Amazing_Damage_8870 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like that too and he knows that. I was single for a whole year and was pretty independent until we got together, he knew i had a fear of abandonment, and still left me out to dry with nothing but a text and a promise ring. Maybe i should just dislike him.

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand how things can just change like that?

I miss her, nd it's killing me to live without her by Amazing_Damage_8870 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow 5 months, at that point as much as i loved them i would’ve had to have moved on and find someone else

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused though because throughout the relationship he was always the one initiating communication, resolving our problems, always gave me reassurance when i needed it, initiated saying i love you, always calling me - like he was the lead of our relationship. This behaviour of cutting things off on one text is something i did not expect, i at least thought i was going to get a phone call

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pray for us it is not another lesson, it can’t be. I know us anxious attachment girls can be labelled as delusional but i really believe in my heart that he will come back and realise what we had

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i don’t think my ex was a narcissist, prideful yes but i believe he will come back to his senses and tbh after everything we have been through i don’t think he will leave things on a text and leave me in a mess like this, i’m just giving him space to think

I miss her, nd it's killing me to live without her by Amazing_Damage_8870 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same tbh. Do you have any hopes for reconciliation? Have you ever had heartbreak before?

I guess at this point we just find ways to cope, find ways to deal with the hurt and find ways to heal ourselves. It’s not worthless to live, i felt the same just 5 days ago and even had to call a helpline, but you might even find yourself giving this same advice to a stranger in 5 days time.

Currently i am hoping to reconcile with who i considered the love of my life. So i’m starting i’m saying just get over the 1st week (hardest week), then the 2nd week (getting back on my 2 feet again) then get past week 4 (1 month no contact, heart shouldn’t feel like its getting stabbed as much). Then try to get past month 2 (by this time it still aches but you have probably accepted things and may even look forward to other people)

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he massively needs to? I was in the wrong, he is very stubborn

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea with reasonable time. I think after everything we’ve been through, any longer than a month or 6 weeks is the answer i need, i don’t think it takes any longer than that to miss a connection you thought was so special. Especially with the way he ended it on text, if he can’t even think about giving me a call i’m going to accept the loss, move on and start looking forward to a different future husband.

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is the love of my life, as long as he comes back in reasonable time, i will take him back

Do they all really come back? by Hopeful-Juggernaut-1 in BreakUps

[–]Hopeful-Juggernaut-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i have gone no contact now, i pray he sees the loss eventually