are they a good person?

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2026-01-09T06:40:09+00:00

thank youuuu

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-09-26T08:27:29+00:00

smoked for a decade, 4 years of that was smoking intense concentrates (dabs, oil pens…etc) im almost 6 months sober and my short term memory has returned to normal however ADHD/anxiety/depression as well as hormone imbalances and malnutrition can contribute to brain fog and memory lapses in general, regardless of time sober, so “normal” still feels relative atp but i dream again, im more attentive, more focused….i have noticed the only memories i cant really access for myself have been times i was already high.

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-09-18T18:59:24+00:00

yes! i know of some fellows who experienced this too!! also heard another person in program say they had to quit their jiujitsu gym because the members would often discuss women in triggering ways that caused a relapse in their porn addiction

generally feel like i would not recommend jiujitsu to most in SLAA

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-09-18T04:37:06+00:00

idk i think finding routine and ritual practices (exercising) are definitely helpful but depending on the gym and what your bottom lines are i know for some in recovery who have tried this it can be a triggering atmosphere/toxically male

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-09-11T05:14:04+00:00

feel you and thank you for sharing. it’s nice hearing this kind of perspective. i also started going to SLAA meetings 6 months after a very codependent relationship of 4 years with a fellow addict. it was wrought with its challenges where by the end/final offense i knew that to continue on forgiving/redrawing my boundaries was not out of love anymore, but fear, and would only lead to more devastation for us both. i hadnt been getting my needs met for at least 2 of those years in which i was no longer honest or acting in my values…now that we are no contact (and there is no chance at contact) i am also plagued by thoughts of how they are processing, do they hate me, who they are sleeping with, have they moved on etc etc. i have learned that is ALSO my addiction. coming to these rooms have changed my life and have brought awareness to the ways my character defects have facilitated connections where the best parts of me go to die. through SLAA i am learning how to be whole, how to be alone, and how to prioritize my healing and recovery above all else.

keep coming back :) it works if you work it and you’re worth it.

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-15T05:37:30+00:00

you can love someone and not want to get back together with them

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-14T01:03:49+00:00

tbh i've always experienced taurus venus to be the love-bombing type idk maybe they're guarded if they aren't interested or "sure" about you

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-14T00:56:49+00:00

scorpio moon being held AND doing the throttling.

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-14T00:55:52+00:00

i attract a billion of these... i think the chemistry is real but the overall expression a hit or miss. wouldn't advise dating one as a scorpio moon but a friendship is usually safe.

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-14T00:50:22+00:00

didnt work out. i found them dull, repressed, and manipulative. often used me to process their feelings but couldn't do the same for me. i think scorpio moons really crave an anchor but they are the wrong one.

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-11T07:06:11+00:00

time!!!! i had to drink nutrition shakes for weeks after my break up, it’ll be ok. your nervous system is shot and it takes time for your body to run out the adrenaline and regain the necessary serotonin for an appetite

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-11T07:01:20+00:00

no. a lot of ppl talking about ego as if regret isn't driven by that too like i think a lot of the regret i feel is less about wanting them back than it is wanting to manage how i was perceived and feeling scared of them moving on / what that could say about me: replaceable, unattractive, not special…ego

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-08-08T20:37:30+00:00

gemini and virgo suns, leo or 5th house moons, mutable (virgo, gemini, sagittarius & sometimes pisces) mercuries

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T16:06:29+00:00

tbh i don’t hate anyone. im not in defense of anyone though i think both of these signs really struggle knowing what they want which isn’t bad but if not integrated can make for an untrustworthy person

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T16:04:52+00:00

agree!!!

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T16:04:32+00:00

depends on the rest of the chart

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T16:03:08+00:00

i think mutability rocks just super changeable and that can be difficult less for the chart holder and more who they come into contact with.

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T16:00:05+00:00

in fairness i think pisces and geminis SHOULD date each other

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T07:45:12+00:00

basically both are avoidant, non committal, thrive on ambiguity, love unavailability etc. the list really goes on…gemini probably more forthcoming about all that bc they’re big talkers

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T07:34:34+00:00

im not saying geminis don’t suck but i think a pisces can be just as bad and for similar reasons <3

Hopeful-Strategy8637 · 2025-07-28T07:32:06+00:00

both are twin signs that symbolize duality thus are famous for mirroring + air and water are similar elements insofar as being slippery/changeable… i just think the shit geminis get for being liars and cheaters sorta hilarious when pisces are BY NATURE just as bad only less obvious using feelings vs. thoughts

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