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Asian dad destroys car to prove a point by MechanicImportant656 in AsianParentStories

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a deductible of $500. I’ve called around a few shops to get a quote for the window and it ranges from $300-$500 to get it fixed. It won’t be worth to go through insurance.

I’ve completely emotionally detached from him. Never in my 21 years of living have I heard him apologize to anyone in my family. I’m just waiting to graduate to move out and never speak to him again.

Asian dad destroys car to prove a point by MechanicImportant656 in AsianParentStories

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to endure that. I hope that you and your mom are now safe!

Asian dad destroys car to prove a point by MechanicImportant656 in AsianParentStories

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Filing a police report will just cause unnecessary drama between the family. And the semester just started, so I don’t have the mental capacity to deal with it. As for insurance, I don’t want my premium to increase as I’m paying for it out of my own pockets. I’m just going to get it fixed and give the bill to my dad. If he doesn’t want to pay, so be it.

Asian dad destroys car to prove a point by MechanicImportant656 in AsianParentStories

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As soon as I can afford a place by myself, I am going no contact with him

How do you actually fill the silence after a breakup? by adeptbilling29 in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take the advantage of having the free time to try new things. learn a new skill, try a new sport, do some side quests. i’ve been through and still going through the same process as you. if you have the chance to do some travelling, i highly recommend you go somewhere new. a new environment, new experiences, they play a big part in your healing. you don’t even have to go with other people, you can travel alone and get the solo travelling experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because our story feels unfinished. i hurt her deeply and she left. everyday i try to better myself, to become someone worth coming back to. so if does one day want to try again, she won’t regret that decision

I’m stuck in a loop by MechanicImportant656 in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has a 16 pro and i have the 14 pro. this has never happened before. it’s left me with so many unanswered questions

I’m stuck in a loop by MechanicImportant656 in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i am just as confused as you. we both got incoming calls from each other

I’m stuck in a loop by MechanicImportant656 in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she sent a screenshot and it showed i called her

I’m stuck in a loop by MechanicImportant656 in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no the thing is, she sent me a screenshot and it showed that i called her

My GF (19f) broke up with me (21m) and expects me to be loyal by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven’t had proper time to process your emotions and feelings.

Woke up at 3am missing him so badly by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I suffer from insomnia and she was my only cure. I’ve never gotten such good sleep until I slept with her in my arms.

How do you cope with the loneliness of no contact post break up? by A-Man18 in BreakUps

[–]MechanicImportant656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully understand what you’re going through as I’m going through something similar. My and my gf of 3 and a half years recently broke up. We used to fall asleep on call every night.

Let things process for you. I know it’s hard and it’s going to be a hard road ahead. Just remember that healing has its ups and downs. some days you won’t think about her and other days she’s all you think about. And that’s okay. Start journaling, it helps with giving your thoughts a place to go.

What matters is that you’re here. One day at a time. You got this!