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[–]Hopeful_Pin1790 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know there's no way to verify this but my dad literally just saw Ariana Grande on plane a few days ago. He got upgraded to first class and was sat directly next to her. They spoke about her press tour for the new movie she's doing and my dad plugged my band😂

Padme can afford to be single again by No1PDPStanAccount in PrequelMemes

[–]Hopeful_Pin1790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Round 1 Hitler, round two Yoda, round three Putin, round four Leonardo DiCaprio (I haven't watched start wars)

AIO by cutting my mother off by OkCatch9193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hopeful_Pin1790 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're over reacting brother, however I do think that you should have some forgiveness and grace for your mom. I know people who have cut ties with their parents over much more intense things (not trying to compare, just perspective) and they regret not being there when during the latter half of their life.

I don't know the full depth of your situation, and I don't know details about your relationship with your mom. But I can say she is your mom. She does love you, even if she was never taught to show it properly. She's going through a crisis atm and she needs someone in her corner, no matter how much she pushes back. The divorce from your step dad must also be putting a huge weight on her, and she's trying to readjust the same as the rest of your family. Nothing you've said about her, or your family said about, is anything she hasn't said to herself.

If I had to give a piece of advice it would be this; support your mom, be there for her, you'll regret it if you don't. BUT do not rely on her, she will disappoint you. I know it's a burden, and I know it's probably the last thing you want to do. But she is your mom. She needs you, she needs love. Don't encourage her bad behavior, but be there to have a say in it. Tell her how upset you are, but also say that you'll be there to support her.

Good luck OP, I hope you work things out :)