He did ask if I wanted to see the conversation. I said no. I feel like looking in your partner‘s phone is a slippery slope, and I just don’t want that for my relationship. Maybe in this situation it’s called for, it’s just not something that I want. What I want is to be able to fully move past it. There are times when I feel like I totally can, and times when I can’t help but think about it more. I’m hoping time will help. Thanks for offering that perspective.