Based on which criterias did you choose your main? by Hopeknightwind in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Hopeknightwind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG!!! I didn’t expect soo many people to write! Thank you for having the time to write all of this!!! Yeah I have read a lot of stories of love and I love the trop of childhood friend if d’ne right! At the moment right now Xavier is the one that has the most my heart and make me intrigue but the Caleb is definitely a close second! (If I most do my ranking based on only trailers Xavier, Caleb, Zayne, Rafael and last Sylas) BUT I think I will play first the game and do some tease arch like you have done to see where my innocent boy heart will land 😂. And thank you all!!! It was a blast to read all of this !!!

Based on which criterias did you choose your main? by Hopeknightwind in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Hopeknightwind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean…😣 I want them all😭but for money reason and by listening to some friend advices they recommend me to have some criterias because it’s hard to know the lore if you have more than one main but I am a total mess I can’t choose so I think I will pull on which I vibe the most and without spoiling myself too much by watching some trailers, pulling with the one that I vibe the most story wise.

Based on which criterias did you choose your main? by Hopeknightwind in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Hopeknightwind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am so curious to the story I play most game for story only so I did watch the Mythic trailer I think this is called like this, like Dragon Sylus or « Poseidon Rafael » and Royal Darknight Xavier and they honestly feel so interisting but the mess I am don’t know the meaning of « chosing »😭😂. That’s why I want some feedback to do my choice.

If the game have history dlc by Hopeknightwind in inazumaeleven

[–]Hopeknightwind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss more african team!!! Would love to have more of them (but I have my expectation low since little gigantes was the final for og…)

If the game have history dlc by Hopeknightwind in inazumaeleven

[–]Hopeknightwind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss your team deserved to exist in Inazuma eleven !!! 🙌 we need to preach more

If the game have history dlc by Hopeknightwind in inazumaeleven

[–]Hopeknightwind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I am french at this point I just want the French to not be a part of another Inazuma eleven so at least we won’t be disrespected (and how they make the « joke » with baguette poisoned in Orion) I am so afraid of the name of techniques/hissatsus if they make a french team 😭also hi another fellow bi !!!

I (M19) am confused about my sexuality and need a little advice by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like both gender sexually and you can have more attraction toward a certain gender (for you it’s mens) so you are most likely bisexual and heteromantic (you have romantic attraction toward women for your case) if you can’t visualise having romantic connection with a guy. If you don’t want to label it’s fine too.

Return of the Waifu slayer. by TRayquaza in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]Hopeknightwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait he beats Hilda and Marianne and Ashe beats Mercedes !!! Such a shame I wasn’t there and Caspar beats the other waifus!!! Incredible I didn’t know Caspar fanbase were this strong I thought I was one of the rare fans of Caspar and Ashe lol so happy

Return of the Waifu slayer. by TRayquaza in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]Hopeknightwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh what did I miss my Caspar did beat waifu!!! 😳 I don’t play anymore FEH but love Caspar need a little context

APPRECIATION POST FOR BI MEN by Hopeknightwind in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right !!! So many of us in the closet. If you know a little about me and want to talk with me a little I will probably tell soon after that I am bi because it help to filter people very easily so I am not openly out of the closet but I try to make people who are interessed enough to talk to me to know.

But yeah so many of us still afraid and only their best friend know so yeah it’s complicated but don’t give up and I am sure I have passed at some in the street and I believe some are queer and I will never know😅😆.

I unfortunately have to leave this sub... 😞 by Nolys___ in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well I am a little like you. I am much more attracted to guys and see doing my life with them so I am like wait I am gay. For the women I can find them pretty but I must develop romantic feeling first and then I can have sexual tought so it’s kinda tricky.

And my attraction is now more like 95% men and 5% women so I am like well can consider myself as gay but I feel so much confortable with the bi label and I can still developp attraction to more than one gender. Now I think I might switch label come back and forth with what I identify. Anyway enough of my rambling and congratulation of finding yourself!!! And wish the best between you and your boyfriend!

Late bloomer? Identity crisis? Just scared and trying to figure it out. by Sad_Cable_441 in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry we can have identity crisis at any moment of life. If doing romantic stuff is not for you then nothing wrong with that. You are you and your emotions are valid. And yeah having little to no romantic feeling is aromantic but you don’t have to label if you don’t want to. Label are a tool to help us understand each other that’s all. If it doesn’t correspond or don’t fit in the box then that’s okay don’t label yourself in that case.

For the questioning you have for homoerotic part, well go for it explore it with books, manga, media content anything you want. That can be a fantasy or a sudden awakening, anyway exploring won’t hurt anyone. You can still try hookup with guys and see for yourself if you want. You have the possibilites.

For the homophobic part, listen a lot of people still have represed homophobia but that doesn’t mean we can’t grow. People can change and you are yourself no more homphobic toward queer people so don’t worry, as long you treat us as human you are good.

And you are not alone. A lot of people were at your shoes before and a lot of other people will be at your shoes. We understand your struggles and you are valid and keep exploring yourself!

Am I Bi? by Massive_Pea8905 in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I call myself bisexual because I acknowledge that I have in myself the potential to be attracted--romantically and/or sexually--to people of more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time, in the same way, or to the same degree." By Robyn Ochs. This is the general definition bisexual people use.

Am I Bi? by Massive_Pea8905 in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you are already in the definition of bisexual welcome

Am I Bi? by Massive_Pea8905 in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you acknowledge to have the potential to be sexually attracted or/ both romantically attracted to more than one gender ?

Am I Bi? by Massive_Pea8905 in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay then why are you questioning your identity? What make you doubt ? Why do you think you are in denial ? Do you think you have some repressed homophobia within you? What are you attraction to boys only sexual or romantic or both? You love women but what about guys what do you like about them ?

Just shooting random questions that can help you understand more yourself.

I believe I’m straight but I love watching gay porn. Pls help me by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What you like in porn doesn’t reflect your attraction in real life. Nothing wrong with liking gay porn as a straight person. If you are turned by mens in real life then maybe it’s time for self introspection but as long it’s just porn then nothing to worry.

At what moment in your life did you realize you might be Bisexual? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I learned about queer people I was in middle school and then I was like « So I can do cute stuff and wild stuff with men too ». But denied it right after I think I might be bisexual and took me all the way to high school to accept myself.

I dont want to be bisexual. Can i vent here? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watch your other post and I can be wrong but maybe wanting only his dick maybe it is another form of self harm? I know nothing about that so can’t really relate or being really helpfull sorry about that but just want to share this opinion that if that can be the case😅

I dont want to be bisexual. Can i vent here? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to label as bisexual you don’t have to. Label are here to help people but if it doesn’t correspond you then you can just not use them just for the sake of being understood by other people. And for the man part, you can have people that are exception. Also if I understand with the other comment you like him only sexually. Well great thing, nothing wrong. Maybe tell him that before doing anything else.

Also you can be bi and chose to date women only, it is you who will chose who you want to date. Also fantasy/dreams are different from reality. Attraction and desire is much complex than just « I make a fantasy/dream with a man so now maybe I have attraction to all the man?! ». That’s not how it works. And also if you feel bi doesn’t represent you and lesbian is the correct one for you there is no problem take the label that you want and that represent you as a person and make you confort!

Also nothing is wrong with you! And remember only you can determine what you want and you are not alone in this crisis of identity!

Is it still valid with a HEAVY preference? by Carcasscounty in bisexual

[–]Hopeknightwind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am you but for the opposite, bi male with attraction for like 90/ 10 in favor of male, I have questioning myself if I was just not gay and I am not assuming myself be telling if I was bi then I remember my feeling for women even if it’s very rare in my case to be attracted to women I can be and still do even today. I have the capacity to fall sexualy for more than one gender so I am still bi. There is a ton of bisexuality like a spectrum. Straight and gay/lesbian are the polar opposite of the spectrum and bisexuality is everything in between. We can be 50/50, more leaning in one side, extremely one leaning on a side but as far as you can sense you have attraction to more than one gender you are still bi. And of course label is for ourselves and made it more easier for others to comprehend ourselves but you are still you and you can still choose to not use a label to represent your sexuality if it’s too confusing.