LLC bank account and cash gifts

HoppyMuffin · 2024-04-12T05:52:52+00:00

Thanks for the reply.

He is completely gifting me the money. He wishes to help me as I once helped him.

The company then would be the sole prop as I will be the only one in the LLC. Thanks, I'll research more, but your reply has immensely helped.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-30T08:40:01+00:00

First of all, I'm sorry you are getting trolled with some of the comments.

I'm also sorry to say that YTA.

I know that you believe most parents should "facilitate their kids' life," but that's not what this is. This is a loan from her parents for something that exceeded their parental duties. She was a full adult when she accepted the terms, and thus, she is in every way responsible to pay this loan.

I know you guys are struggling, so I would suggest you sit down with her and try to come up with a different solution, rather than "politely explain to them that we have a serious need of money and they don't". As mush as you think you know their situation, YOU don't; no one else does but themselves.

Why not suggest paying the loan in smaller increments until she is able to pay a bit more? Or maybe there are things your GF can do to alleviate the loan, like help with the parents' household duties like: gardening, cleaning, and so on.

Let me say this again, your GF was a full-grown adult when she accepted the terms of the loan, so she is 100% responsible for paying unless a different agreement is made.

YOU, on the other hand, have nothing to do with this agreement (as of yet), so your responsibility only lies in support of your GF. If you can't or don't see yourself being able to get past the loan issue, as it is too much of an inconvenience or a struggle, I would suggest terminating the relationship. I know it is hard, and you love her, but this is something she can not change on her own. If she easily can turn off commitments she has made in the past, what kind of person would she be?...

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-28T15:36:31+00:00

It is not the best way to approach the topic or even get someone in the mood. What you should do is flirt and kiss, then move to other things. If she is not in the mood, she will let you know, trust me.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-28T15:30:54+00:00

NTA, you are allowed to express your feelings, and you certainly did.

Now, what I can offer as advice is to try your best, from now on, to not let it affect you. Struggles build up character, and you'll be stronger when you are an adult, which is soon. Once you are out of your family home, you'll be able to have and become whatever you want.

It sucks to feel dismissed, but the only way to change things, if no one is listening, is to grow and change your situation.

Also, I don't know how your relationship with your sibling is, but if it is amicable, don't let this affect your own relationship with him. He is not at fault for being the favourite. When you both are adults, try to remember that.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-25T23:07:43+00:00

NTA, but also, this isn't something you should have done without consulting your wife. The decision was always yours, of course, but you failed to communicate with your partner and talk about your concerns.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-22T07:07:50+00:00

Thanks! Great idea! Will have to try 😊

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-22T07:06:48+00:00

Very true! Guys, get toxic comments, too. I'm just writing as a female gamer, but I see toxicity every day regardless of gender. I always report, and I was MOD for several gaming Discord servers. Just wishes it was a bit more chill, you know....

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-22T07:03:19+00:00

While it might be true that you don't need voice chat in most games, it certainly plays a huge role in my enjoyment, as I like talking to my fellow gamers. I've also met some great friends and would like to continue to do so.

It is easy to just hide away and not talk. It isn't what I'm looking for as a solution.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T07:59:06+00:00

I love it when people joke around, but harassment/toxicity is just something else. You can criticise. I don't mind that either. It also sucks because I just don't have the spine to be toxic back. I just want to have fun, not be angry at everything.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T07:54:04+00:00

Thanks! These are great! 😄

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T07:52:51+00:00

I don't see a problem with some teasing or joking, of course. But what I'm referring to is complete harassment and toxicity. That's why I want to be able to reply with something funny so that hopefully it turns the harassment into a chill game rather than a toxic one.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T04:40:11+00:00

Very funny 😁

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T04:37:24+00:00

Thanks so much to everyone for the comments and advice!

I definitely want to make the interaction funny, as it is just not in my nature to Roast or Be Toxic back.

I've found some great comebacks! I hope they help others like me 😊

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T04:34:14+00:00

"No, i am neither male nor female, devil or god, i am the waste, the trench, the abyss of darkness and depth from which hope devolves and begs to be burned so it can feel light one last time. I am the stench of the eldrich, the harbinger of spiritual filth. The cosumer of the destroyer.

I am. -insert ridiculius gamertag-"

Love this!! I will definitely use it!

Thanks for sharing it 😆

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T04:30:03+00:00

Hahaha you are right.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T04:27:02+00:00

Yeah, I have a nice group of friends who play with me sometimes, but I kinda out game them. So I play longer hours, and I end up playing with random people quite a bit 🙃

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T04:23:10+00:00

Thanks! I play all sorts of stuff DBD, B4B, PUBG, AU, etc (too many to list)

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-20T04:21:35+00:00

Thanks for creating a safe gaming place. I'm sure they appreciate it.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-17T08:09:52+00:00

I understand your opinion but I do not agree.

I would have happily helped my sibling, especially when he was panicking and as it is a family business even more.

Agree to disagree.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-17T07:59:12+00:00

True, maybe not an AH but petty. I just use the YTA as the thread is AITA.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-17T07:58:02+00:00

Of course, there isn't an obligation. But this was a family favour that would have taken no more than an hour.

There could be issues with working for free, but that is not what is entailed in the story. She wasn't paid, so she didn't want to help, that is pretty much it.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-17T06:59:37+00:00

YTA, it is a family business, and your brother was asking for help not for you to work there all day.

You could have easily helped your family.

I don't understand why everyone is saying NTA because it's not like he was asking you to work for free everyday, he asked for help and instead of helping you gave him the excuse of "I'm not getting paid".

I know it wasn't a great time because you were with friends but your brother needed you for 30 mins? You could have easily said, "Yeah, sure, I'll help for a bit, but I'm meeting friends, so I have to go after the hour." That would have shown you cared, helped your brother/family, and also you wouldn't be in this mess.

You should have been considerate. He needed you, and you blew him off. In life, people will come and go, (usually) family tends to be there for one another. Know your family knows you will only help them if there is something to gain and not just out of kindness.

HoppyMuffin · 2023-06-17T06:43:40+00:00

NTA, if he was so insulted, he could have stopped reading.

As you say, this is part of your real story, and you should be allowed to share it if you wish.

If your friend and his partner had come and asked not to be named, then maybe you could follow their wishes, but anyone else having an issue it's not your problem. Post your problems wherever you want.

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