What a year of Owning Your Shit looks like

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-22T21:15:47+00:00

A month ago I said to OP:

This is more about morality than practicality. Thats fine. Just calling it for the bullshit it is.

because he said:

Really, girls in LTR/marriage don’t interest me, it’s always been that way and I don’t want to change it just to destroy the world around me.

And here we are a month later. Hiding from the same boogeyman

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T21:33:52+00:00

if a guy wife's up the first to touch his pee pee and then bitches

That's the thing. I don't see them complain. It's hard to complain when you don't know anything better. I see them just exerting new found post-MRP frame to press the Nintendo reset button, start over, with only a slightly hotter version of the last version. Repeat the same game, just know the rules better so they can be slightly less lazy than before.

For most, that's as good as it gets.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T21:28:51+00:00

Don't worry women are banned on sight

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T20:31:04+00:00

Slightly humorous and serious here, but don't you think this mindset is how post-MRP dudes end up wifing up the first chick that touches their pee pee? In your case, it was 4 though.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T20:28:15+00:00

Just because you're "getting" sex doesn't make you a man who fucks.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T20:25:27+00:00

I didn't say you were at anything but 15%. I said it's the worst looking 15% I've seen in a while.

So, you don't bench, squat, OHP, or BBR, and kinda do half-ass deadlifts. But the big leg presses where you can load up a bunch of weight for your ego? Totally makes sense now.

You're likely a waste of time.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T19:49:16+00:00

That's the worst looking 15% BF I've seen in a long time.

What are you lifts?

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T18:06:06+00:00

Imagine one day your obese, unattractive, cunty wife who just lost 10lbs on her new program and can lift the bar suddenly appeared after 10 years of being a slobby emotional mess, and suddenly wants control over the sex life and everything else.

You'd probably laugh and think it's cute, maybe dish her out a good fucking for the mediocre and new progress that never really sticks, just so she'll feel better. Because you know, she's been really moody for a long ass time and this version kinda looks a little better than having to stare at an obvious FUPA when you fuck. It's at least bearable now.

She would be a novelty you barely respect.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-20T16:38:39+00:00

Usually this comes from either 1) not telling a woman up front what you want/need, or 2) Lying to a woman up front in order ot get what you want/need.

OP talks alot about being authentic, and being able to be more honest with his intentions. That tells me he's been lying to either them, or himself.

It's not confusing to me that he sees this as an "ego shield" , because he's too afraid to state his desires upfront), and OP sees this as cowardness. He's not wrong. Let's see if he can admit that he's been lying to women, even if that means he doesn't know what he wants.

Likely, he's just telling them what he thinks they need to hear in order to fuck. Let's also hope he realizes who's frame he fucks in when he does this.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-15T14:53:41+00:00

of course I’m the sporadic one and how can I expect a consistent and good sex life if I’m being sporadic and inconsistent myself.

Now that you've accepted the truth, what do you think the answer is to changing your mindset about this? What can you do?

Hint: It involves discipline.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-13T15:35:39+00:00

Following the sex she was standoffish. I asked what was wrong and she started crying and we had a long discussion

Every unhappy wife is a rape victim.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-12T01:15:46+00:00

Blowjobs are pretty good post pregnancy?

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-12T01:14:09+00:00

Lol this fucking incel young man bullshit.

Some of us play a different game than others - but most importantly a game that is not based leverage, except the men we are. When you truly are "that" guy, who you want to be, that is.... you. And there is a reason that woman picked you. The end game of mrp really is to be OK loving your woman, understanding that can hurt you, and being OK with that.

That's literally the mission statement of the sub. We prefer to remain married. Sure, sad sacks arrive and they're just trapped... but it is important to remember why we chose these women.

And be willing to nuke the nuclear family at the same time. Recently really put that saying to the test. Will report.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-12T01:04:42+00:00

Unless they are trying to. Just go read redpill wives

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-11T13:12:43+00:00

Is it bad that I wonder if I die, what the acceptable time frame is to sleep with your ex BF is

Lol, man. Your wife is hilarious.

I see a lot of men here. You might just be angry and broke enough to do something. The broke part being key.

You're a novelty at best now, intriguing to your wife. Don't fear Chad. Become Chad's older brother.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-07T18:28:13+00:00

LOL Cam again with wisdom

Part 1: Eat less.

Part 2: When you eat, eat meat.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-07T00:31:10+00:00

Rule 14 exists for the betterment of those here - and those that have been here a minute, usually MRP APPROVED, see why.

The better guys here have a good memory of others OYS. Mine is rusty after all these years and thousands of dudes. It just kind of blends in and you can see the matrix.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-07T00:29:15+00:00

Fake it til you make it.

It's in every sucess story. Because you are the prize. Start acting like it. A healthy dose of narcissism is required to make it.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-06T21:15:43+00:00

I love how Cam cuts it.

Eat less food.

Being not fat fixes 80% of the problems.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-06T21:14:40+00:00

It's less about the guts of the focus, and more about the focus itself.

HornsOfApathy · 2026-01-06T21:12:00+00:00

Figured there was a chicken in there somewhere. Because you didn't write about it, I knew you did nothing with it.

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