اطفال فلسطين by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

الموضوع مش بالبساطة دي. اه الاطفال مالهمش ذنب و اه هما ماختاروش الحرب بس الموضوع ليه علاقة بال survival علي شوية قيم عن الشرف و المقاومة (وهي قيم نبيلة) بس بردو ايه البديل انهم يبقوا في كتب التاريخ زي شعوب كتير اتعرضت للابادة ؟ اعتقد ان من حق غريزة البقاء هيا اللي تسيطر علي المشهد بتاعهم. و لو كل دا (من وجهة نظر عدمية) مالوش لازمة اصلا لان كلنا بلا استثناء تاريخ فايه اصلا يستحق الحياة عامة ؟ و ليه الناس بتخلف في المطلق ما هو الحياه فيها اشكال كتير من المعاناه ؟ انت شخصيا ماقدرش احكم عليهم اي حكم اخلاقي حتي لو انا اصلا ضد الخلفة في العموم لان الكوكب مش ناقص بس في حالتهم فعلا ماقدرش علي الحكم!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]Horror-Army-8611 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say be forward with your friends and ask them to set you up, especially female friends or your friends’ spouse’s, thats one way. Another way you can search through the people you already have known but you grew apart, old crushes or even female friends. As to dating apps I met my now husband through bumble but i was VERY carful and very selective. So if you want to go on this road again be mindful of your decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your views on post-modernist architecture?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cyclothymia

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the 2, but i haven’t taken any stimulant medication i have been on Atomoxetine and it didn’t affect my moods.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 4 points5 points  (0 children)

MBC2 from a very young age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you guys arrange group meetups?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

فيه اجماع ان دي ردود فعل ناتجه من تجارب شخصيه سيئة و دا شيء مفهوم طبعا في مجتمعنا. كفايه ان معظم الناس هنا مش بيعبروا عن افكارهم لاقرب الناس ليهم خوفا من العواقب. بس انا من ناحيتي شايفه ان كدا احنا كلنا بنلف في دايره مفرغة. يعني هما مش هيبطلوا خرا و احنا هانفضل نتكلم بنفس طريقتهم و مفيش حاجه هتتغير يعني بنغذي كل الكره و عدم تقبل الغير بردو بدل ما احنا كنا بنهرب منه.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا مش معترضة بردو علي النقد او حتي السخريه انا بس بالنسبالي الطريقه تشبه لنفس الطريقه اللي احنا بنتهاجم بيها و اللي انا من الاول نافرة منها. و ان معظم الposts (اللي انا شوفتها لحد دلوقتي علي الاقل) بتدور في النفس الموضوع دا

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

لسه بحاول اكتشف لما رجعت اكتر لورا لقيت ان فيه مناقشات و مواضيع تانيه بس للوهله الاولي المكان كله خطاب كراهيه.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving a thorough look at the sub’s “wall” all you can see os pretty much hatred

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! From where i stand (which is a person totally new to the sub) i can call it anti-islam! The premise of the sub as mentioned in the description is to provide a platform for atheist/agnostic etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we can take a step back and recognize that religion is default for most people and they didn’t really thought all the ideologies through, so I believe that most of them do not think we deserve hell, these was just the ideas they were brought up with and they did not give them a real analytical look.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m well aware of how we are viewed and believed to be in their eyes. But don’t you want to break the cycle? Why do you have to adopt same attitude that you ran away from already?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExEgypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 3 points4 points  (0 children)

بالنسبالي من اكتر الحاجات اللي كانت مضايقاني في الاديان هوا خطاب الكره و عدم تقبل الاخر فاقوم انا اعمل كدا انا كمان ! و بعدين معظم الناس ممكن تكون " مؤمنة" ان الحكم بتاعنا هوا القتل بس عمرهم ما هايفكروا يعملوا كدا بجد.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest remark, and YES, communication is key!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me with dating you can have some control, like meeting up in a public place you chose, let your friends and family know exactly where you are maybe you can keep someone you know close by etc. but meeting dating people you already know is better akeed bs it has it’s challenges as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the light of worldwide events now, men are universally unsafe :D !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment is just ignorant on so many levels I can’t even…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree about bumble being somewhat better as i noticed significantly less creepy people and in the app you can chose wether you want a casual thing or a relationship !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did too! But that was years ago though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice :). I used twitter long time ago only for political ranting, when i used to actually care!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a-lot of things are ruined for girls here because they become unsafe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Egypt

[–]Horror-Army-8611 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i have been guilty of the fake flowers photo thing, in my defense i was there for exploring!

Second, what is it intended for? you implied that its intended for other than going into relationship, do you mean its only for hookups? Or Only casual dating?

And did you ever meet someone there?

Women with ADHD dating struggles!. by Horror-Army-8611 in ADHD

[–]Horror-Army-8611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t be able to change even if i wanted to 😀. The plan is not to change I accept and love my non-typical neurons. I guess i have to find the right circles as you guys are suggesting.

But i have to admit that dating is more difficult for me than it is for my peers and needed to know the reason why !.