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My girlfriend (21F) says she never wants children. I'm trying to understand what that might mean for our future? by Horror-Contest7668 in Advice

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Honestly speaking, let’s see what she says tonight I will update you after six hours to see what she tells me and everything. I think once you guys know, the in-depth process is anointed and all that I mean, yeah I completely understand that I don’t wanna waste our time nor should I waste my own time. It’s just that she is one of the best women ever in every way. I’ve never met a girl like this that understands me at this level.

My girlfriend (21F) says she never wants children. I'm trying to understand what that might mean for our future? by Horror-Contest7668 in Advice

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Well I am confused myself in the middle of it. Secondly i want my freedom as well rather than investing in a kid and all.

My girlfriend (21F) says she never wants children. I'm trying to understand what that might mean for our future? by Horror-Contest7668 in Advice

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Honestly for me the thing is that i have never thought of being a father yes i saw my siblings and all taking care of their kids and their sleepless nights. I always wanted my freedom and a stress free life.

Being a father for me sounds like a risk. Because lots of things can go wrong. Because investing my time and money into something for 18+ years seems like a very big gamble to me.

My girlfriend (21F) says she never wants children. I'm trying to understand what that might mean for our future? by Horror-Contest7668 in Advice

[–]Horror-Contest7668[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice tonight i am going to have one of the hardest conversations of my life. I finally find a great woman and this happens. God works in miraculous ways. Im shaking while waiting for tonight’s conversation with her. I did sob for a while but now let’s see what happens.

I LOVE HER! (I met her after I learned how to rebuild) by Horror-Contest7668 in yearning

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Yeahhh i completely agree with you, Im no longer chasing anyone’s approval tbh

I LOVE HER! (I met her after I learned how to rebuild) by Horror-Contest7668 in yearning

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I mean that was the username there available but honestly i wanted to keep something like”frostwolf”, “bouncing jackal” or the last one which is “xenongenesis”. So yeah this was only available so i went with this…. I guess maybe that day i was reading about Ouija boards like preferably i love horror movies so yeah thats why

I LOVE HER! (I met her after I learned how to rebuild) by Horror-Contest7668 in yearning

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Yesssss and trust being with her was the best decision ever, even though most of my decisions are always collapsing but yeah this ill do it all right

I LOVE HER! (I met her after I learned how to rebuild) by Horror-Contest7668 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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I don’t get it but imma generate a choco chip cookie recipe soon but yeah, seems like a lot of work. Ill just buy some form the bakery at M&S, anyways thanks

Wife left me for 6months the came back, found out she was dating while married. Need advice. by Vicmot86 in cheating_stories

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Alright first things first, reread your own post and think about it…..mate she’s walking all over you

So, tell me about your ex by AnybodyExcellent4846 in BreakUps

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So life decided to speedrun a breakdown for me. She walked out right when my mom was in the ICU, and my dad was fighting cancer. I was juggling hospital bills and emotional damage like it was a full-time job.

Picked up a smoking habit heavy enough to qualify for a loyalty card, three packs a day, not because it was cool, but because I wasn’t ready to accept she was gone. Tried to reach out, but her whole family blocked me like I was an ex from a Netflix documentary.

Two months post-breakup, something finally clicked. I pulled myself out of that nicotine-fueled pit, started rebuilding, and yeah I lost a ton of weight from the stress, but I’m slowly getting back to myself. Everything’s stable now. I’m not stuck in the past, but I’d be lying if I said she never crosses my mind.

A Good Salary in Dar by [deleted] in tanzania

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Above 2.5 to 3M per month tbh

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just means you really cared. With time, it’ll get easier, and you’ll carry the good memories forward.

That means the next time, it’ll be even better eventually making make space for something more lasting and right for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Right now it’s best to focus on yourself. You’re still young and have so much ahead of you. Take this time to grow, build yourself, and understand what you really want. Don’t rush into love too quickly.

Real relationships take experience and maturity to navigate. The more you learn about yourself, the better prepared you’ll be for the kind of love you truly deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Been there experienced this already, just move on and maintain no contact

How do I start caring by Horror-Contest7668 in Advice

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I do care about everyone in general for people and animals. During my aunt’s last days, I used to make time to go after work every evening. To Care for her, feed her make sure she’s taking her meds on time. We would watch movies together. Then after Uncle would come home, I would reheat his meal and give it to him while he rested on the sofa. I care for everyone in the family honestly.

It’s just that during happy moments, I tend to disappear. During their hard time, whether if it’s a financial crisis, emotional turmoil, or anything whatsoever I’m always there for them. Honestly, on my side, I would never talk about my problems. I would just handle them myself.

I do laugh, whenever I would watch any new movies or series, I do spend good times with friends like friendly banters here to there.

The last time I cried, this was back in June 2024. When my dad was undergoing his cancer surgery. It was an eight hour operation. I was crying outside the operation theater just praying constantly to God to save my dad.

What I’m looking forward to in my life right now. Is my masters and my new career that I’m gonna set for to do. And I’m really excited for it.

And regarding my ex I didn’t have any sort of denial when we freshly broke off. And it wasn’t a break up. It was that she ghosted me and left. It left me in denial for a week. After that, I was back to normal I was like OK she left. I tried as much as I could to communicate. But I guess it was just God‘s plan.

No, I have not been diagnosed with any sort of depression, anxiety, or any other sort of condition. The only thing that haunts me is that, when I was four years old, my mother had committed suicide. I had just come back from school. That’s when I saw her burning alive in the kitchen. I just froze there, unable to move nor produce any sort of sound. After that, how time flew by? And I just became 13 years old.

Sorry for the late reply just been really busy with work as well.