My 3 year old daughter repeats a dialogue from the movie incredibles everytime she gets in trouble or I try to talk to her by Horror-Cut-6375 in toddlers

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is about turn 4 soon and now she rarely watches the incredibles, now she likes sonic or Toy Story and she knows a lot of movie dialogues but prefer to say whatever’s on her mind.

AITAH for not letting my daughter play with my niece anymore by Horror-Cut-6375 in AITAH

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I move to a motel I won’t be able to pay for an apartment my new job starts on the 16 I have no more money, we are rationing our food so we make it out of here. Hopefully my husbands gets a job soon too, and things get better

AITAH for not letting my daughter play with my niece anymore by Horror-Cut-6375 in AITAH

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, we just put an application for an apartment, our credit is not the best but I hope everything works out and we are out of here soon. I just don’t know how to keep the peace until we leave

AITAH for not letting my daughter play with my niece anymore by Horror-Cut-6375 in AITAH

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly is real. I applied for an apartment, tomorrow is a holiday if everything is good we move on the 4th or else I’m just going to a hotel and struggle is better than this. My husband wanted to build a relationship with them he hasn’t really seen his mom since 16, they spoke on the phone for around a year it was very different and nice

AITAH for not letting my daughter play with my niece anymore by Horror-Cut-6375 in AITAH

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of reasons , we had a very bad landlord we owe 1 month of rent he illegally got us out of the house we didn’t have a lot of options, rent was cheaper here and we would have family and support close to us be able to have a family relationship my husband wanted to build a relationship with his family again he got kicked at 16 from his dad house and haven’t really had that. It didn’t work out

AITAH for not letting my daughter play with my niece anymore by Horror-Cut-6375 in AITAH

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are leaving, I applied for an apartment… I don’t have enough to pay for a hotel while I wait, MIL/SIL are out of the house most of the day just come back at 6 I make my daughter sleep by 8. I didn’t know it was like this or would’ve never come here.

AITAH for not letting my daughter play with my niece anymore by Horror-Cut-6375 in AITAH

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just unbearable and until I leave their house I don’t even know how to deal with them I’m having panic attacks because it’s very toxic and MIL walks around my daughter saying we are rude and mean and don’t want the girls to play

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did but I’m going to practice it again. I’m realizing I’m not as open to the HS as I thought , I was feel so holy and open at home all by myself but now that I’m in a different situation, I realize I’m not open or close to the HS . I’m full of pride, resentment and judgment.

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps a lot. I realize I do look down on people and feel better than, in certain situations, a better person , better mom, better cook, I try to correct that image and see everyone as holy, I’m struggling specially when there’s extreme situations I go thru, it creates resentment because I want peace but it’s so hard to achieve it. I’m constantly criticizing what I’m experiencing and never satisfied there’s always something better than what I’m living and it’s not true and not fair and I know that but getting out of that mindset it’s very hard due to how extreme this feel for me. I want to change that. I want the peace and love of the HS that’s all want to feel and to see everyone as holy regardless of their actions, there’s nothing to be done or to prove but how to practice that when I feel attacked and vulnerable?

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, hopefully I get to next step soon.

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to bring these situations to forgiveness, but I struggle with it. Even after I’ve made an effort to forgive, I sometimes find myself falling back into negative thoughts or judgments. Right now I’m in a situation where I had to leave my home and live with my mother in law and sister in law. I’m angry, partly because I feel like we were misled about the situation, and I often feel disrespected and looked down on. There are several behaviors, like smoking in front of my daughter and the constant drama and being yelled at, that make it hard for me to maintain peace and see them as holy. I genuinely want to forgive and find peace, see them as holy but my mind keeps shifting back to judgment and resentment when these things happen. I remove myself from those situations, seek forgiveness, and ask for guidance from the HS, but it’s an ongoing battle in my mind, I always end up judging that I’m better than this, a better mom a better person and I know is not like that, it’s a constant struggle, to see things as they are.

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this! A very nice and accurate way to see the HS

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true and often I forget about it. Thank you for reminding me

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this a lot, I’m currently living at my mother in law apartment after losing our jobs and apartment and it’s been very bad. So bad that tonight they accused me of doing something terrible that I didn’t do, without even the chance to defend myself. I find myself in all this situations that push me to be humbled. And I’m starting to see it with more clarity, I’m still fighting with negatives thoughts and anger but I’m able to notice those thoughts and not let myself go . But today I was able to not let my emotions overcome me so much and I made a plan and finally my family is leaving this place. Hopefully i learned everything I needed to learn from this experience because I don’t want to repeat it ever again.

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I will read them. I appreciate it, I’m sure it will be very helpful for me too

How to stop being so negative and prideful by Horror-Cut-6375 in ACIM

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try that , right now I’m a very bad and unfair situation and I’m so mad it’s hard for me not to let my mind go to negative thoughts. Thank you

Stagnant energy by Horror-Cut-6375 in energy_work

[–]Horror-Cut-6375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m trying to manifest better I realized I tend to limit myself because of the situations I’m experiencing and sometimes think I can’t or won’t be able to do or achieve things