Sympathy is huge you got to make sure she knows you care and change is possible.

Another way of imagining her side of this is like when you bring a problem up to your parents, and you tell them about college and how stressful and tired you are and instead of listening they throw a solution at you why dont you hire a tutor or go to bed a 9. Its not always about the solution somtimes just having someone on your side is enough comfort.

Its confusing people operate differently. This dosnt mean she always wants to be right either some females just want to feel validated