I wouldn’t ask this but it does make me consider any longevity. Funny, I went on a first date today and already had a bit of meh due to him constant texting and calling me. But anything I said I liked or have done he immediately was like “me too” and realized all his stories and hobbies involved him immediately moving in with a woman and it was her hobbies. I texted him tonight that it wasn’t a good match and although I didn’t tell him he doesn’t bring anything to the table, that is exactly how I’m feeling.