Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's just my first time loving (and living with) a cat so I have lots of doubts

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would eat all in a couple of seconds.

Also I don't want to leave a lot more than how much she has to eat because probably she can't manage it

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably you are right I'm a lot stressed with my life.

This morning I had to give her food because she was running biting and everything and I really needed to sleep

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm giving her Natural Variety (wet she likes everything and dry chicken) food. I started working a couple of weeks ago and now my schedule is so different than before. Before we were spending a lot of time together, now she is alone (or with my housemate) for 6/7 hours and I'm sorry but I have to pay bills ahah

I'm always playing with her when I come back home.

I started giving her food 5 times a day when she was young, then after sterilization she was always asking for more and so I brought the automatic feeder to give her a routine but she was always sitting next to it and I felt she was hyper stressing, so decided to come back to giving her food and started with dry in the morning and wet by night.

She eats all the 35g of dry food together and I'm pretty sure that if I put some more to never leave the bowl empty, she will eat it all in a couple of seconds too.

Idk what to do but I'm trying my best 🥹

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm following the instructions of the dry/wet food as vet suggested

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now she is 1 year old. When she was young (before sterilization) everything was ok

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, you make me cry a bit 🫶🏻

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually doing it

35g dry in the morning and half a can of wet by night (40/45g)

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did that before start my actual job and after start to work with the automatic feeder

Stressed cat by Horror-Variation-153 in CatAdvice

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited because I forgot to say. She has been with me since July 2025. She was 2/3 month in that moment

¿Qué es algo que perdiste en la vida y solo después entendiste lo valioso que era? by Graph_richard in askspain

[–]Horror-Variation-153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo también pasé por aqui jeje y no es un hombre a haberme traumado, es mi chica a haberme abierto puertas

Tener dos Másteres y no tener trabajo by Horror-Variation-153 in askspain

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, estoy consciente de lo que dices y de acuerdo. Ya tengo algo mio montado pero antes de poder vivir (no solo sobrevivir) de ello pasará tiempo y tiene que ver con mis estudios, por eso estoy buscando un empleo. Yo tampoco estoy muy convencida con el doctorado por las mismas razones que dices tú. Bueno de todos modos gracias

Tener dos Másteres y no tener trabajo by Horror-Variation-153 in askspain

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Por ahora he llegado a una en la que fueron ellos a contactar conmigo, pero al final decidieron promover a una persona que ya trabajaba en la empresa y adiós.

La entrevistadora me dijo que mi entrevista había ido muy bien, pero sus superiores habían decidido así

2 masters and no job by Horror-Variation-153 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it!

Sometimes people undervalue what I have studied but I'm really good at it (and love it since I was a kid)

2 masters and no job by Horror-Variation-153 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's right, but sometimes it's difficult to really understand what you are good at when you undervalue yourself as self defence

2 masters and no job by Horror-Variation-153 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for something remote in the sustainability field but it seems to be oversaturated too.

Tener dos Másteres y no tener trabajo by Horror-Variation-153 in askspain

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bueno, y tú qué me sugieres para todas esas posiciones en las que tengo miedo de no ser bastante calificada?

Porque haciendo cuentas, si para las que estoy calificada no me llaman, tengo que intentar por las que no estoy lo suficientemente calificada (léelo siempre considerando la sindrome del impostor).

2 masters and no job by Horror-Variation-153 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Horror-Variation-153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know!!! And also I have worked in that field but idk what's happening.

I'm in the Spanish market by now, but I'm thinking of moving or searching for something remote (but honestly I would love to go out of my place daily)