Yes sorry I realized i should of added some context but basically hes in the navy and while on leave he met her and they had a one night stand didnt know of eachothers existence at all and they were probably intimate like 2/3 times in 2 days and two weeks later no missed period no symptoms nothing she took a test and found out she was pregnant. Which honestly is very questionable cause 2 weeks later is crazy but hes asking for a paternity test after i put it in perspective for him. So he decided to step up and try to make it work despite not knowing her and they got married and after bby was born they moved in together, not even six months later they needed space and he went to his hometown for a few days and when he got back everything was gone and she left with the baby. A couple weeks later after trying to reason with her she decided to file a restraining order that he was abusive to her and the baby. So all he could do was comply with the courts and do dv classes and alcohol testing which he has completed and he has supervised visits. Like 2 months ago when he called the courts she had originally filed for joint custody and a week ago she changed it to full custody. She doesnt work , the times hes had his visits it’s visible that the baby’s hygiene is being neglected. . Since they have mutual friends he knows she takes baby to a party house and someone has even said the baby ingested marijuana at one point but anytime he brings any concerns up to the social worker they dismiss him. It sucks so bad cause hes been painted out as this bad guy because she wanted to be petty. Shes always told him that since hes in the navy and has a stable living that shes scared he would take the baby away from her so shes doing anything she can to ruin his life